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Thread: I'm a girl looking for a guy's advice on multiple questions...

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    Default I'm a girl looking for a guy's advice on multiple questions...

    Hello, I have questions for guys...
    1. If a guy starts dating someone else AFTER he met you does that mean he wasn't that into you in the 1st place? My guess is yes lol

    2. Do guys really consider girls who don't question them dating other women cool or do they simply consider them easy targets? I feel like if a girl never cares or asks what a guy is up to he will never bring it up himself and he will probably be happy bouncing back and forth between girls who never question anything bc they are trying to be "cool".

    3. When does a guy start to get comfortable after dating someone new? I have been dating someone for a month and a half and while I still get texts daily they are nowhere near as many as they used to and the time lapse between the texts spaced out a lot.

    4. After a month and a half, is it too late for me to back off and appear somewhat aloof just to keep him guessing even though he knows I'm interested. I hate game playing, but I guess this is how it is.

    Answers to any one of my questions will help me a lot. Thanks!!

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    Default Re: I'm a girl looking for a guy's advice on multiple questions...

    1) Good guess.
    2) Depends on if they're cool or just trying to be.
    3) Different from guy to guy.
    4) It's never too late, only gets harder to pull.

    You are welcome.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl looking for a guy's advice on multiple questions...

    1. most likely, or he isn't looking for serious relationships in the first place so he gets sex whatever girl he sees as his "best option"
    2. if you make it ok for him to have other woman, he will have other woman, as long as ur having sex with him he'll keep you around, but only as a source for sex (if he wants a serious relationship he won't be seeing any other girls even if your cool with it)
    3. i'm going to say it depends on the guy, but no matter what, things are going to slow down a bit after you've known each other for a certain period of time (the amount of time depends on the couple)
    4. is there any reason to play aloof? you've known him for a month. it is possible, but don't overuse it, I absolutely hate it when girls try to be too aloof (its usually caused by them being really insecure witch is a big turn off for me)

    let me guess, you and your boyfriend are in an open relationship or he's cheating on you, so your trying to figure out how he's thinking. you're cool with him seeing other girls, but deep down you want him to commit to only you. am I right?

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    Default Re: I'm a girl looking for a guy's advice on multiple questions...

    Thanks for the reply! No we are not in an open relationship we are just dating but sometimes I get confused with the signals. But I'm probably being a typical girl and reading too much into little things.


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