So i'm wondering if i could get some help or opinions on a certain stage i'm at with this girl. She was my friends ex, but he was ok with us dating. Her and i first met up over Facebook and then proceded from there. We've been txting and talking for about a month and a half. Due to distance in between us it was difficult to see each other.
The first two times we met we were at a bar. On the second time we made out. Two days ago we met up and went on our first official date. We made out and did some other stuff, but mostly kept our clothes on (mostly ).
My question comes like this. We used to talk constantly over txt and the phone, but now we don't talk as much over txt. I know that you should get the girl to call you. But she hasn't called a few times when i've said "call me".
What can i do to get back more of the spark that we had before? Should i do more flirting or move things in a more senual phase? Or am i just worring about nothing. We've only txt a couple times and chatted over Facebook since i was at her house two days ago. In our Facebook convo she said she had fun when i was over and would like to see me again. But i feel as though i'm losing some of her interest. I want it back! Help me out.