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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I have to come here more often...lol
    Honestly I've been doing the same thing and now I feel like an idiot. I really just need to learn from T-Mal's advice...it's really helpful thank you!

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I used this one many times. i didn't make it up, but also can't remember where I read it. Sorry I can't give proper credit.

    Read girls bio, find something she likes, baking, dancing, reading etc. it doesn't really matter.

    You: Baking?lol...Your such a girl
    Her: Various responses, but high success rate, and it is quick and easy.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I made a fake recon account on OkCupid a while back, and I couldn't believe the amount of unoriginal, bland, cheesy, sexual, and many other types of messages I received (all within like one hour of making my account mind you). Basically, similar to yours T-Mal LOL. I now understand precisely what most girls go through on these sites.

    Needless to say, I delete the recon account that same day.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I posted this one and get lots of replies:
    "You are kindly requested to make some changes in your profile. There have been complaints from other members.

    Then usually she replies with: What? Why?

    I then answer something like:
    Other women take offense of you. They say you are drawing the attention away from them. You're way too cute

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    FYI, several hundred messages later & the guys are STILL doing this exact same crap!

    In fact, SOME of the message are even worse than ever!

    So all you newbies here, who are struggling with POF or Match or OKC, DON'T send messages anything remotely resembling the ones in my main post here.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    OK, time for an update to this thread...
    It's sad but true that these are 100% real.
    Here are some of the latest messages my recon profile is getting.

    What REALLY kills me, is when guys don't bother to double-check their spelling!
    THAT will almost always guarantee a no reply! (As if the crappy messages themselves weren't bad enough!).... Just sayin'

    So here we go; more examples of lame / horrible messages that most guys are sending to girls: (Exactly as they are in my inbox)
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    Hello, thought is say hi

    Gr8kate, how are ya. I'm def not too timid to contact you but I am looking for a friend and then we will see where it goes from there.

    I'm Michael and you sound like a interesting young lady. I know we could have a blast together because I'm always into something. We should chat because I want to know more about you

    Hello my name is Brian

    Wooooow! That's all I can say.
    Have a great day.
    Eitan

    How are you. My name is micky

    Ur very beautiful How are you

    Hi how are you

    Hey how r u
    (3 min. later same guy) U look really yummy, we could do some fun stuff with a banna to get u wet n turned ob

    hey

    Hello how are you? You have a great smile! And I'm sure I'm one of a million guys to email you on here.. I would like to chat sometime. Maybe you can teach me some of your martial arts.

    How is your week so far

    Hey gorgeous!

    hello

    I saw your profile and wanted to send you a quick note, you seem very interesting and I would love to hear more about you and your interests. I am a hard working, professional guy originally from England looking for someone to have share fun times with in the hopes that it will grow into a wonderful relationship.
    Hopeful that I will hear back from you soon.

    I was just scrolling through and saw your beautiful picture and thought I would say hello. Message me back if you'd like to talk.

    hey hows it going?

    Wow, where have u been all my life.

    You are a hottie!! Wanna go out on a date soon?? I am in love.lol
    (8 min later same guy)
    I'm a good guy and I work a lot..I don't have much time for a relationship but not ruling it out forever...right now on my time off I am looking for someone to go out and have a good time with.maybe even a safe fwb situation. Let's see if we are compatible.....?? I'm not scared to go down...I love to do that and know I can please a real woman if your the lucky one :-)


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    That's enough examples for now.... they all pretty much run the gamut like this... although, as you can see some of them are even worse than others!

    So, again I'll remind you: DON'T make the mistake of sending messages like these!!


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Great thread. Yep, keep it simple. Don't invest a lot.

    Also, any chick can post any pic. I don't do a lot of online dating because I'd rather know what I'm getting than have to cross my fingers and hope it's not a fat chick, or worse, a man on a pick up forum, lol.

    Thanks T-Mal
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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    LOL!!
    Yeah, it's very possible that the girls with the best sounding profiles could end up being someone like me on the other end.

    However, when you personally do enough in-depth research & study on this subject, you can usually smell a fake profile from a hundred miles away.

    It's crazy, but I've already gotten about 20 more messages in the last hour or so.
    Silly boys!



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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    There are ways to see if the profile pictures are on other sites. Simply drag the photo into Google images, and it detects to see if it's located anywhere else.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I don't date online because of a sort of "buyer beware" mentality I have but this thread is sooo useful. It just goes to show how many guys pull the same junk all the time. Just when I start thinking that I'm not doing anything special, that I'm just being myself or I'm losing my PUA edge... I can see from these examples that on my WORST day I am still 1000x better than these losers lol!

    What I'm seeing is that you should qualify right off the bat with online stuff? Like tell her she can not be as cool or as fun as her profile says? Is that what most of you guys do?
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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