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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    LOL!!

    THIS is honestly the funniest message I've seen. It's actually pretty good, other than the fact he's complimenting the girl's looks.

    But it made me laugh for real.
    I really might actually try this one out myself...

    Dude wrote: Damm I have a bunch of swamp donkeys messaging me why can't somebody that looks like you message me???? Lmao

    I'd definitely drop the "lmao" at the end though.

    And a couple variations of that, like drop the "looks" compliment & say "someone normal like you" instead.

    But overall, this is one of the better ones.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I took the liberty of making my own Recon profile, after first reading this thread. It's a fantastic tool. I was looking through some messages this morning and thought it would be a good idea to post some of the messages I've gotten on mine, just to kind of re-enforce T-Mal's point here, and how extremely bad and chodey the guys on these sites are.

    The following are all in a row, I didn't skip a single message. It actually makes me cringe. Especially at the thought that some girls don't message me back, when this is all they're getting other than me in their inbox.

    hey what's up?

    Hi

    Hey kid can i get ur number?

    I checked it out it looks good so what's up with you

    Hello, you seem like an awesome person, I really like your style. I dont message much on here, so many crazies on here it seems lol. Maybe we can go for sushi, or just grab a bevy sometime? let me know what you think

    Hi

    Your really cute
    What kind of guy are you hoping to meet?

    Hey how are you

    Hi, I'm just curious, what type of job you have that involves fashion?

    Meeeeeow

    Hey, how's it going? You seem like a lot of fun. What do you do in the fashion industry?

    Hey, how's it going?

    Hey there, my name is Paul. I'm looking for someone to hang out with and possibly more if I enjoy being around them. You seem like a very nice woman, who has very pretty eyes and beautiful hair! I hope to hear from u soon

    How had checking this out been for you so far? (This one's possibly my favourite)

    Salutations! Names Craig, how's your night going??

    Hey how's it going

    Really enjoyed your profile & awesome pics, your very beautiful!.
    tty soon
    Ciao!


    Hilarious right? You have VERY little competition if you have a GOOD profile and send INTERESTING messages fellas!! This is sad. I'm actually pissed off right now.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    Hilarious right? You have VERY little competition if you have a GOOD profile and send INTERESTING messages fellas!! This is sad. I'm actually pissed off right now.
    I have done this too, and you are right, the competition out there is horrendous... my problem and why I am starting to get down, is that I don't send messages like this and still don't get replies.

    Your profile, and I believe specifically your pictures, are the key. I have tuned my profile text a whole lot over the past year and the results don't really change. I know if I had better pictures, I might have a shot.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    You definitely don't want all your photos to be "selfies"... and make sure NONE of them are bathroom mirror pics.

    You want photos that give a better idea of you & your personality, lifestyle, interests, etc....

    You doing activities, & / or interacting with other people. That's the type of photos you want to have.

    Make sure you have at least one or two good clear face shots too.
    Close enough so girls can really see you, & IN FOCUS!




    And make sure your written section is different from every other guy's profile too.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You definitely don't want all your photos to be "selfies"... and make sure NONE of them are bathroom mirror pics.

    You want photos that give a better idea of you & your personality, lifestyle, interests, etc....

    You doing activities, & / or interacting with other people. That's the type of photos you want to have.

    Make sure you have at least one or two good clear face shots too.
    Close enough so girls can really see you, & IN FOCUS!




    And make sure your written section is different from every other guy's profile too.


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    Wow. Great advice man.

    I always have girls compliment my photo skills and I totally stay away from all the corny stuff you mention. I always want to be shot with something interesting... A background, with friends, my guitar etc. I guess it really does make a difference.

    I will add that save pics other people take of you if they're good. Even if you're goofing around or making faces. Always save any pic of you that makes you laugh or smile when u see it. If you like it enough to smile at it, chances are others will too. Oh and always take multiple photos of the same shot. You never know which will be best
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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I'm going to explain why it's important to have a good profile, AND good photos to go along with what you write, and then show you a couple messages I got from different women.

    Because, you could have a written section that says how exciting & outgoing you are; but if all of your photos are selfies, or webcam shots in front of your computer, you're contradicting yourself & girls will notice that immediately!



    Message #1-
    She wrote: Gotta tell ya love your profile your life looks exciting my name is shirley




    Message #2- (I opened her with a message first)

    I wrote: I'm not sure what got my attention the most; but I DO know that the spelling, grammar & intelligently written profile had a lot to do with it!

    Also- I sense you possess a wonderfully sarcastic side & the nickname "Miss Sassy-Pants" would be well suited to you. ;o)
    If you come across this clearly in written word, I bet you're an absolute riot in real life!

    Hope you're staying warm while mother nature is having her PMS & taking it out on us.
    -Mark





    She replied: I had heard legend of FunnyMan and thought it to be just that, legend. I don't normally believe everything I read in the media but the photos really authenticate the story. Bravo!

    So what could have possessed you to migrate north? I went to Nashville for the first time last fall. Had a burger and a beer at The Pharmacy (curry ketchup, yum!), bar hopped the downtown and witnessed a zombie march. Fun town, fun time.
    How long have you been in Hillsdale? I have not been there yet. What are you finding to do there to keep yourself happy/sane this winter?
    I am also curious about what you employ yourself to do if you care to expound on that.
    Thank you for checking out my profile and introducing yourself.

    - it's Ms. Sassy-Pants



    So, in addition to sending good opening messages, your profile has to be congruent too.
    You have to stand out from every other profile she's wading through so that the pictures immediately get her attention, and your written section describes you & your life in away that is unique & interesting, and most importantly, fun to read.




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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Oh my god,if I ever go into online dating,my opener will be : "You're an ugly slut".

    Jk,but seeing all these messages,this opener probably has a better chance than anything on that list LOL.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    True TMal.

    I am constantly surprised how I will take a pic of what I'm doing and its just me being me (no selfies of course). However, when a woman sees it, she infers alot of stuff about you that you would never thought of . It's really pretty amazing.

    Once my friend was texting a girl he knew in his old state. He showed me a pic and she's cute. I mess with him saying she's his GF. He says she's all mine ... He doesn't want her. It sort of became a running joke.

    Turns out he sent her a funny pic of me without my approval. She thought I looked fun. One day she calls him and for fun I pick up and act like his secretary. She was totally curious as to who would be so bold. And of course, after she found out who I was, she remembered the pic and was talking alot about how funny I was.

    It's like that one pic already gave me cred lol. Pics are worth a thousand words! I believe it!
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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Exactly!

    And the thing is, the pictures WE don't necessarily think we look the best in, are sometimes the ones girls like the most.

    It's all about projecting fun, confidence & that ability to become vulnerable in a sense... like not caring if you look goofy at times.

    Women are attracted to fun & excitement. And when you're the fun & exciting guy, you're gonna get their attention.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Alrighty!! Here are a couple more examples of HORRIBLE messages to send to a girl:

    God you are so gorgeous are you into younger guys if so would you care to talk

    *same guy - 2 1/2 hrs later:
    Ok I guess not sry to bother you


    THEN.... we have "Mr. Life Story" who is trying WAAAAAY too hard. I have a female friend who I'm showing some of these messages to, just to get her input as well. Her exact words on this one were: "Oh hell no! I skimmed the first line of each paragraph & would've hit delete! I'm NOT reading a F***ING book!"

    Here's the message she's talking about:
    Holly crap you are interesting, and appear confident enough to back it up, which is rare. I like your banana thing, but seriously of all of the fruits and this being POF, I can only imagine how the word "Banana" got used in a phrase with you .....LOL, not good. That being said, I used banana and will just leave it at that.

    I did a lot in my first 30 years, rode bulls in about 40 states won money in 37, Canada, Mexico and Brazil several times, I've had a hand in making the newer quarters in your purse when I was about 22-23, have not been an employee since after that age 22-23. I have run a logging business for 8+ years in Wisconsin, Iowa, Nebraska, Northern Missouri, Illinois, Kentucky and Tennessee, partners in a machine shop and have start a new business that is going good with several locations and will soon to be offering franchise opportunities for others. There, I got the whole, I'm not a complete loser part out of the way, hope it didn't come across wrong.

    I'm extremely level headed, 100% rational and calculating in most anything I do .....even the riding bulls was always calculated, not for the sole purpose of "thrill seeking", which I hate that stigma that gets used too often with typical endeavors, most of which are not truly dangerous or deadly. I am grounded, in that I own (don't make payments) on 60+ acres south of Paducah, where I live. I'm mature enough that I don't have to pull dumb stunts and go on wild emotional roller coasters to get my "fix", I'm quite beyond that, if I ever went through that anyways.

    Regarding humor, mine would be described as an un-relenting and dry. If you tell me to stop, I will, but I can go back and forth with someone who likes to play 24 hours a day for however much time you want to be around. I'm crazy confident so you can and I can, call myself or anything you want and it is fair game. I don't might making myself the butt of jokes just for the laugh, because it is just fun, and I know who I am and so does everyone else, and that's what makes it fun, having the confidence to see the dumb sides of ourselves and know that isn't big enough to be construed, as it is our beginning and end, its just a part of who we are (hopefully not a large part).......so have fun with it.

    Well, have horses and cattle to feed and the guys at the stores are calling.

    Have a great day,

    Sam



    Yeah.....
    zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz




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