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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Wow!!! Just wow!!
    Sometimes the messages are just sooooo bad they're classic!!

    The following message would absolutely creep a girl out... I promise you! (I'm censoring his skype identity for obvious reasons)

    He wrote:
    You are the most beautiful woman in the world I hope you are my wife..I am an engineer, I'm not married .. I want a relationship with you .. Maybe you be my wife .. I hope that you write me your phone number or your Skype or Yahoo .. .. my name in the Skype ******

    Guys, please remember that a woman wants a man who is more of a challenge. A man who is confident, secure, non-needy & who won't just roll over & give up his masculinity.

    Nothing about this guy's message would do a thing to create attraction.

    So, learn from this & never send anything remotely resembling anything like it.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Go figure he's an engineer. As an engineer myself, I know they're pretty socially awkward and needy people

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Seeing your FunnyMan37130 profile, and this helped a lot. Great examples T-Mal, thanks!

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I once sent a pretty hot chick a compliment about her eyes. It was all of those things (a compliment! selling my quirks! corny!) T-Mal told me not to do, but it actually elicited a really good response.

    Why? Because Disney, and written in perfect English. And probably because it didn't ask her to respond; it was just a favorable observation. I'd like to think it's also because it was genuine and original, but so is a lot of pure crap.

    Of course, I crashed and burned later because I got needy and creepy, but the point is that a working opener can be value giving. It just needs to be obviously from a place of "I have value to give" rather than "I need your value."

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I opened a fake girl's profile a couple of years ago. I think the absolute worst messages I received was one guy who offered to go down on me and attached photos of himself licking, and another dude who begged to pay me for my used underwear and socks!

    One day I got a great message. It was witty, related to the fake profile I'd made, and made me laugh out loud. I think I actually broke cover on that one to tell the guy how great the message was and wished him good luck.

    I believe I deactivated the profile after that... It was a bit unfair that there were a few genuine guys messaging me; I felt I'd made the profile appear a bit too genuine! But I got all the recon info I needed by that point: girls get a sea of terrible messages and the key is to be unique!
    It's time to drop use of the archaic 'HB' grading slang.
    A modern, more descriptive, and complimentary system: A girl is...
    Below your league / In your league / Above your league

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I've had that debate with myself as well...
    But I realized that real men who are used to dealing with women, understand that they're not gonna get a response from every girl.

    I've messaged LOTS of hot women who never replied back. No biggie. That's just how it works.

    But there have been a couple times I've responded & suggested they "talk to my friend, T-Mal". LOL!

    One dude I actually had a blast messing with... he was one of my ex fiancee's exes.

    The thing is, I absolutely know this guy has studied game.. so I wore his ass out with counter comments to everything he said, knowing what his next move would be, even before HE did.

    Even his profile was one of those that are sooooo different that it gets attention. And he's extremely good with words.... but I led him on, did soooo much Push Pull, and a couple freeze-outs.... he kept chasing hard.

    He constantly asked "Kate" out & wanted the number so bad... until finally, I made mention that "a good friend of mine is a PUA / instructor & taught me what to watch out for, in case I was ever being gamed by some dude who wasn't genuine."

    Then he stopped.
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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    SO a girlfriend of mine has a blog about her experiences with online dating. I think it would be helpful to not only see the lame opening lines but how the entire conversations play out. I think it will make you feel bad for girls that they have to deal with AFC Idiots like this, although my friend is a smart ass and can take care of herself. Guys ……PLEASE NEVER send any message like these Buffoons ……….. ENJOY;


    “Marriage martial!!”
    “You’re gorgeous”
    “Thank you.”
    “Anytime I’m Bob how you are?”
    “I’m okay. We wouldn’t be a match, Bob.”
    “I wasn’t trying to be a match lol It was just a compliment. Wow. Speculation.”
    “Speculation? It’s a dating site.”
    “All I said was nice pic. That’s not a proposition lol”
    “And I thanked you.”
    “True. Take care.”
    “You too.”


    “Beautiful”
    “Thanks.”
    “R u for real. ?”
    “no, I’m imaginary.”
    “Dam u r beautiful y r u on here ?”
    “I’m single.”
    “How far are you from the beach ?”
    “don’t worry about it we wouldn’t be a match.”
    “Very pretty I’m Cory”
    “Thanks. We wouldn’t be a match though.”
    “And why is that ?
    “aesthetics.”
    “I understand what you mean but that doesn’t explain everything. You think we wouldn’t be right for each other? Or I’m not your type.”
    “you’re not my type.”
    “Ok but maybe we could be friends.”
    “no offense but im very antisocial and have lots of friends.”
    “Sex?”
    “If you aren’t my type why in the world would I want to have sex with you? Come on. Don’t say stupid shit.”





    “We should get married ! Lol.. JK”
    “Yeah, sorry but, we wouldn’t be a match.”
    “I agree that’s why I put JK at the end it means just kidding lol.. ��
    “Well, thanks a whole bunch for messaging me just to tell me that. It’s not like this is a dating site or anything where people message people they are actually interested in.”
    “Material & we wouldn’t be a match.”
    “Ooops my bad on the sp. and I know that you’re to Good for me”
    “Huh?”
    “U said we wouldn’t be a Match. You are top notch perfect 10. I’m not close to that. I’d be lucky if a 400lb welfare mom of 4 would want me.”
    “If you knew this, why did you message me?”
    “Was ust telling you you are awsome. Trust me I would never expect a girl of your caliber to even consider me.”
    “Well, thanks for the compliment.”




    “Is being a 25 year old virgin nerdy enough for you..?” “Take my virginity” “Please?” “I’ll do anything”
    “Leave me alone.”
    “Just trying to have sex with my dream girl”
    “Stop trying.”
    “Then start sucking
    “Get real. You’re a virgin for a reason. Now fuck off.”



    “Wow you are very beautiful and very attractive”
    “that’s redundant.”
    “Just trying ton be nice”
    “Try to be my type.”
    “Suck a dick”
    “Oh, I will. It just won’t be yours.”
    “Iwould eat your prissy so good your mom would feel it”
    “That is the most horrible comeback ever. If you going to be ugly & an asshole, at least try to be entertaining.



    “Hello nurses”
    “Nurses?”
    “Gd morning …. Starting the day off right?????”
    “I don’t think we’d be a match.”
    “Okay so you think we’re a match tell me your likes and dislikes”
    “I said we would NOT be a match.”
    “I think you have conflict issues”
    “Yeah, that’s it.”



    “Pick me…lol”
    “Sorry, no.”
    “lol”
    “That’s funny?”
    “Yes you hit me with a simple effortless “sorry no” lol
    Careful you just might let the (good ones) slip away…. Have a fantastic day….”

    “Do you want to know how lame the “good ones” line is?”



    “Hi, you have a very interesting profile. Are your boobs real? How big are they?”

    “Nice social skills.”




    “Hello sexy how are you what’s your plans like today
    I would like to take u for drink or I will have tournament in AC u can come join me there we will have big party after u and your friends are welcome”

    “by party do you mean roofied & date raped?”
    “Anything u can imagine”
    “I may have to pass.”
    “Why is that”
    “1) ****** isn’t seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment
    2) I’m not looking for what you are looking for
    3) I’m attracted to young, skinny rockers & long hairs
    I can go on but, really do I need to?”

    “If you looking for relation ship that’s different story
    But if u looking to have fun you are in right place”

    Not Interested


    “I would love to take pictures of you”
    “If you are a photographer I check references & charge $100 an hour.”
    “We can make some movies”
    “Ahhhh No, we can’t.”


    Hey there quite the interesting profile… how’s it going
    “Same old, same old.”
    “That good huh..?” “Wutcha u up to ? …….. I’ll be visiting NY in a few weeks or so n looking for some ideas n what to do where to go. I’ll be staying in Manhattan then off to Europe” “Any suggestions?”
    “Not really.”
    “Ur fukin boring lol
    “That’s because I’m not interested.”


    “Wow love your body”
    “Not a great opening line by far.”
    “I just said you look so pretty”
    “That is not at all what you said.”


    “How are you doing? Dam I have to say yr a ten and the closest I’ve seen a ten on this site is five #2s. My name is Torey. What’s yr name? What u like to eat and drink? how far are u from philly? I wonder can I. Be a friend maybe meet for dinner sometime. I’m drama free single live alone working and drive. Dam yr eyes are amazing and pict sexy. Model I thought. U was a angel. Do u have wings tattoos on yr back. But model. Yes I see that. Hope to hear from u if not hope I made u smile”

    No, you didn’t you put me to sleep



    “strong nudes”
    “Thanks.”
    “Real classy, girlfriend material.”
    “Are you being a smartass?”
    “Are you being an attention whore?”
    “Not at all. Modeling is my job. Just my job.”
    “I understand that..it’s your life though, I wouldn’t be able to upload a picture of my dick for everyone to see and expect to find a GF, let alone be taken seriously.. :/”
    “Well, I wouldn’t want to spend 5 minutes with anyone with such a moronic outlook.”
    “Yeah, instead you’ll get a bunch of creepy fat neckbeards white knighting you. Good luck with that.”
    “Dude, every chick on here gets hit on by the same creepy guys. It’s not model specific.
    “umad”
    “Nope. Just think you are an asshole.”
    “30 year old posting naked pictures online, good one! See ya.”
    “Yawn. Loser 23 years old that knows absolutely nothing about life. Keep getting off on sending unsolicited messages to chicks online that you know you could never get & jerking off into your tube sock. Virgin.”




    “hey T how are you beautiful I’m Kevin I deff like your profile :’p”
    “Thank you. I don’t think we’d be a match though.”
    “oh yea why’s that ?”
    “Just personal preferences.”
    “oh really that’s a shame you have no idea lol”
    “I’m sure.”
    “well I’m a freak ill admit that and I like other weird things nd I don’t hold back ;’p”
    “Oh, I’m sure.”
    “I’m artsy as well beautiful ..”
    “Again, I’m sure.”
    “guess your not interested ..”
    “I kind of mentioned that earlier.”




    “Hi hi hi hi ”
    “Sorry, no.”
    “Hehe ..... OK”



    “you are one hot chick”
    “I’m aware of that.”
    “I just thought that would be a good convo starter”
    "It's NOT"


    “Hey beautiful. What brings you the most fulfillment out of life?”
    “sex, food, sleep & music, like everyone else.”
    “That pretty awesome you are a model. I’m not going to lie I think your haircut is pretty cool.”
    “Thank you.”
    “Welcome”
    “What is your favorite sex position?”
    “I’m not telling you that and you shouldn’t be asking girls that right away.”
    “You are right, I do apologize if I offended you. So if you were stuck on an island by yourself what is the one thing you would want.”
    Anything but YOU



    “hey pretty i’m Jay … i really like your profile..let me know if you’d like to have coffee or dinner with me
    “It’s so very obvious you didn’t READ my profile.”
    “i did million times i really love to know u better”
    “You are the exact opposite of what i am attracted to.”
    “i know but i tried.. lol”
    “I don’t understand why. I very clearly state what I am looking for.”
    “i know but we both single ..i hate to be bymyself grrrr”
    “Well, i can’t help you.”
    “it’s ok.. if u want we can be just a friend”
    “I have friends.”



    “do you love sex in the shower?”
    “about as much as you love sending creepy messages.”




    PLEASE GUYS DON'T EVER SEND NEEDY,CREEPY, BIZARE MESSAGES LIKE THESE ..... AND FOR GOD'S SAKE PLEASE SPELL CHECK WHAT YOU SEND .... THERE IS NOTHING ALPHA ABOUT BEING AN ILLITERATE

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    This is a WHOLE DIFFERENT level of stupidity than I even mentioned.
    LOL

    Your friend was as trooper for even taking the time to reply to them.
    Most girls just hit delete & call it a day.

    Tell her I gave her mad props for that.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Yeah T .... she's a great girl and a lot of fun. She is my drinking buddy and wing man and I love that about her

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    "strong nudes”
    “Thanks.”
    “Real classy, girlfriend material.”
    “Are you being a smartass?"


    Man, I coulda saved this guy! His approach was OK considering he mentioned the quality of her photos. But he clearly has an axe to grind. He started to go south when she asked him if he was a smartass. Calling her anattention whore was a tad over emotional but still, he coulda saved himself. Oh and then HE bails out! Like dude, she is talking to you... Don't be so invested. You can tell she is strong and would leave the convo quickly if she really wanted to. Poor fool lol.

    Oh and you're friend seems pretty annoying. Shes like one of those hot girls who is super cocky and has a giant bitchshield. Really annoying but glad she's a good wing for you! Great social proof!
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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