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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    LockDown ~ I think her issue is she makes it VERY clear on her profile what she is looking for and if you are the total opposite she gets annoyed that you are wasting her time .... now with that said, I'm not the long hair, skinny, rock and roll type but we are good friends so if you have some game you have a chance with her, unfortunately these idiots are all Uber AFC, they had no chance the second the typed the first letter of their opener ... LOL

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Personally, not being a girls type works better for me lol. If they already disqualify you, the surprise of how awesome you are can make her question her priorities. Just have to not get discouraged or become needy. Mixed signals with a woman who wants a certain type of guy works wonders. I think you might be able to pull something off since you know techniques.

    Believe in yourself lol!!!

    And nice to see you're from my neighborhood! I can tell what type of girl she is just by knowing she's in nyc
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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Hey I just messaged a girl who seems to have her guard up big time. She mentioned in her profile about deleting it soon. I figured it was because too many creeps msg her. So I msg her saying:

    Me: dang! That sucks!
    Her: what does?
    Me: creeps beat me to you, now your deleting your profile.
    Her: not quite.

    How would I transition from this?

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    It's been a while since I updated this thread....
    But I have a couple new messages to show you as MORE examples of what NOT to do, when writing an intro message.


    These are from 2 separate guys...

    The FIRST one asks WAAAAAAY too many questions! He's trying desperately to find a connection & build rappot. The barrage of questions will make the girl feel put on the spot & uncomfortable. DON'T do that.

    Guy #2 in these examples is too nicey nice.... he doesn't want to impose or be a nuisance. He's timid & unsure of himself, and does NOTHING to create any curiosity / attraction whatsoever.


    Hi Kate how are you? How's your week been? are you 100% Hispanic? I'm Italian ) do you drink red or white wine? I love art & music as well & love concerts! So fun!! What's the best concert you've been to? is there really good sushi in Jackson? Lol haha sushi is definitely one of my fav foods! Are you originally from Jackson? I'm in Sterling Heights I love to travel as well!! Have you ever been to Europe? ) hope to chat soon, enjoy your weekend



    Just wanted to say Hi! Would love to chat sometime, if your interested? But if not, then I wish you the best of luck! Have a great day!


    And, there have still been ENDLESS repeat messages like the ones in the very beginning / top of this thread. (GO back and read those too if you haven't already.

    It's messages like these that will guarantee you bomb out with online dating.



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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Here's another one I HAVE to share...
    DO NOT EVER send a weak, apologetic, timid message like this one!!! EVER!!!

    Hi, sorry if I'm bothering you like most on here. Just thought I'd take a chance and say hi. Never know til you try, right Hope you're smiling because you're beautiful.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Want more examples of THE WORST types of messages to send to girls??
    Here's yet another.... (Straight up copy/paste from the inbox on POF.

    My name is Matt my likes are video games cards U of M football karaoke golfing bonfires bowling movies and get to gathers with friends and family I have 1 brother 1 sister and 3 nephews I like to camp and travel in the summer

    Ask yourself this: Does any part of this message stand out & capture your attention... and make you want to respond?
    Not to mention, the lack of punctuation screams IDIOT!

    If you want quality women, you have to project The Vibe that you're a quality man! And using netspeak, or bad spelling, or no punctuation, will absolutely have the OPPOSITE effect.



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