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Thread: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

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    Default T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Right to the point...
    I copied a bunch of REAL messages guys sent to my recon POF profile...
    This is what women get all the time. DO NOT send messages like this or your man card WILL be revoked. Got it!!?

    ALL of these messages are so bad, they're below being beta!!!
    They scream desperate, chump, loser, douchebag, etc!!!!

    (BTW- my recon profile is: Gr8Kate17 if you want to search & see who they're responding to)

    Now, on to the messages.

    Hey there how's your night coming ...are you starting to make plans for the weekend...you're a beautiful woman maybe if you find any interest in me we could become more acquainted ...I promise I'm a nice guy once you get to know me

    Hi

    so i coming that way in 3 weeks... trying to meet someone nice to kick it with

    How about a bike ride for a first date ? after we talk in public first ;-)

    Hello how are you

    Gorgeous!!

    You are so beautiful

    id do things for u id never do for anyone wow gorgeous

    I hope you find someone as good looking as you. Lol

    I really wish i had the right bait!! Lol. But something tells me i couldn't catch you.

    Hey hey hey

    Hey hottie

    Great smile! Seems we have some things in common. Would you like to get to know one another?

    Well let me see if i can make u giggle a little....lets see. ok.....kate, dont be late, i got the right bait, i am great, wanna be ur mate, this could be fate, take u on a date, maybe share a plate, so please dont hate and make me wait how bout it kate.....

    Good evening Kate. Could we chat and see what our likes and dislikes are?

    Hi there im Will

    You are so amazingly beautiful. Would love to chat...

    Wish I had the right bait for you

    Would like to get to know you more. I'm Joe.

    How are ya sexy gal

    I am pretty sure you hear this all the time you're nothing but beautiful and me I am jonathan I would like to talk to you sometime if you'd like to

    I'll keep it simple...
    Look at my profile and let me know if you're interested...
    You look great, looking forward to meeting you soon

    Hi how ya doing?

    Hi, my name is John. How is your day going?

    How are you doing today?

    Hi there. I am John and I would like to talk to you to get to know you.

    What are you doing princess what is your name

    Geeez how.are you single , great profile and beautiful.

    hey how are you

    Come on now, you know you are way prettier than for this site. So please stop playing with guys feelings. Lol

    How are you? Amazing eyes and smile

    How’s your afternoon?

    hello, how are you doing today?

    mmmmm damn you are sexy

    Hi Kate! Beautiful profile!!

    Hey how are you doing? Very nice pics. I'm interested in getting to know you better. Are you open minded as dar as dating?

    would a home cooked candle lit dinner be the right kind of bait???

    Hey there. How are you

    Hi there

    Hi there how are you? I was checking out your profile while doing so thought I would say hello also see if we could converse and get to know one another so when you get a moment just get back with me if you don't mind so I hope to here back from you
    Kirlando

    Hey sexy. U interested in a dude that can rock ur world. I'm 31 I got plenty of pics I can email to ya. I hope I hear back from ya

    Hey there. How's your morning going? I'm Chad btw

    wow youre so so gorgeous!! Hello im Seth how are you?

    Hey how r u doing

    hello!

    Hey how are you? I'm Jason

    How about a movie, and THEN have dinner? Lol

    Hello beautiful. How are you i love to play jokes too.so maybe we can play some good jokes on some people lol

    How are you?

    Hello. Im Ron
    Lets talk sometime
    I like that you enjoy riding motorcycles

    hi kate (im guessing) i would like to meet you, im pretty sarcastic as well! im pretty good at playing practical jokes myself! so im up for the challange! im also a pretty funny guy, i try to find humor in everything except the really serious stuff. would love to get to know you better.
    Beautiful profile!

    U r an incredibly gorgeous woman!! They don't make um like u, where I'm from!!

    How are you?

    Hey how's it going??

    Hi

    Hi

    Hey gorgus

    Hi how are you?

    Gorgeous!!!

    Hello

    Waha

    Hi

    How are you? I'm Scott

    Hello how are you? Would you like to chat? what do you say
    (2 hours later- from same guy) Hi your a nice looking lady would you like to chat?

    Hi beautiful what's good I'm jamaahl

    Hey girl like ur curves u got them 4 sure huh ?

    How are you doing? You are very beautiful and have a amazen smile! Do you date black men?

    You're gorgeous

    Hi beautiful my name is Tray...I would love to make your acquaintance hit me up

    Well hello Kate! How are you this afternoon? I just got home from work and back from walking my dog around the neighborhood sweating my butt off! It's sooo hot out, but I've been drinking a lot of water so I should be good to go Anyhow not that you needed my itinerary for the day lol, I wanted to say hello. You look unbelievably beautiful! Way too much for this site anyhow! I would say I pretty much like all of your interests except motorcycles because of an accident I had on one in the navy but yeah we definitely have a lot in common! Ummm yeah sooo, I am interested and I think you should message me back cause I'm a pretty awesome guy, better than the rest Hope to hear from you soon!
    Hugs,
    Paul

    Beautiful.

    Hello.sweets im Jim

    Text me beautiful I'm Chris 931-***-**** I will send u a pic then and if u do

    Hey there I'm Matt. How's your day going?

    Hello there, how are you doing today? Hope all is well and I look forward to having the opportunity to talk with you. Until then take care

    Wow

    You must be a very popular girl with all those messages. Honestly I can see why. First off, you are super attractive, but you also sound like fun. I hope your day is going well and to hear back from you... I’m John

    Hello Beautiful

    Hey how are you doing? My name is dewayne I just read your profile and I was wondering if you might date outside your race? If you don't I understand but I had to take a chance.

    Hello there

    Hey how are you? I wanted to reach out and say hello, I enjoyed reading your profile.. We have something's in common, if you have the same mutual interest I'd love to chat with ya.. Kenny

    Hey what's up how are u

    I'd like to have a pertner like you. I wish you were here

    Good morning, what a nice profile and sites to see of you this morning. What is your name? Norman.

    You are so beautiful, would look even better on my arms lol im just saying lol have a good day and good morning

    hi beautiful how are you
    (10 min later- same guy) hi beautiful

    Very pretty. I am jay BTW..

    How are you? My name is Carson. I would love to get to know you. What's your name?

    Hey there how are u doing gorgeous

    I hope all is well.. I read your about me, and I have to say wow your a strong woman to know what you want, I saw a woman with ambition, and a woman who chase dreams, and most of all you have a smile that would turn the saddest day ever into the most amazing day, I hope you don't mind this email, cause Im gonna tell ya what type of guy I am. My name is Matt, I'm a laid back down to earth, chill type of guy, I have been deployed 5 times in almost 8 year's. I am a respectable, man of honor, and loyalty, I love being in the army but at same time, It bother's other people. Mainly because the douche bag guys in this world that come off like they are an amazing guy, hurt the girls that should never been hurt. Now Im not saying I am amazing I do have flaw's, But who doesn't have flaw's. I hope we can talk and chat, just thought i would give you more then a normal hello how are you type message. Well I would have to say that, Communication, Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Love Comprising, And most all affection is what makes a successful relationship, With out any of those people don't have anything ya know. I really hope we can talk and chat and really get to know each other, I hope you do take the chance and email me back, It would be an honor to talk to someone who seems real, and whose seems like a blessing to have in someones life

    Hello there. I think I can be the guy who can have your eyes wide open wondering what's next. If you have no
    Problem dating a black man hit me up. I know I can hang. Might just call your bluff. Hope to here back from you Steven.

    Hey
    (1 min later same guy) your def beautifyil

    Hello Beautiful,
    Wow!! Could you possibly BE more magnificent? Kate, I hope you realize that you are by far the most amazing woman on this or any other dating site bar none!! It's hard to imagine why you would even need to use this site to begin with. Intelligent, beautiful women like you are few and far between. I for one can and would appreciate and respect you in ways you have yet to imagine. I would consider it an honor just to have the opportunity to explore the possibilities with you. Hope to hear from you. Have a wonderful day!!

    hello how r u doing i hope we can talk

    Absolutely gorgeous pics

    I can hang with you & give you all you can handle!

    hi there beautiful let go out for drink and dinner

    I see we have a lot in common.

    Hello, just admiring your profile and pictures

    Hello, How are you? I see you are a practical joker. You sound like a fun person to be around. Would love to here back from you.

    Hello beautiful ...I'm Jason how are you .
    (2 hrs later-same guy) You are a cutie...mmmmm
    (another hour later- same guy) So what is fishy biting tonight

    Hey what's up, names Jason how are you doing?

    Hello! How are you?

    Hi

    Hello there

    Id be honored to know you
    Eric

    Hello how are you

    Hi gorgeous nice profile and pictures

    I would love to chat and get to know u.

    Hello how r u

    Hello there, how r u? My name is Curtis & I was wondering if y date black men?

    Hey beautiful

    Hello there!! How are you doing??

    HI HOW YA DOING?

    hey how r u

    Hello Beauty! Wanna chat?

    Hey there. How are you doing?
    Jesse

    Hey what's up you seem like a really fun girl and you're really beautiful. Im laid back and try to be fun, in always smiling and I like to make others smile too. Anyway it would be nice to get to know you and see where it goes. . Ps I suck at this introducing myself first lol. So if you're interested message me back. Hope to hear from you

    Hello how are you tonight? Enjoying this hot weather? Anyway I came across your profile and I wanted to say hi. So what's up?

    So beautiful and a sense of humor....to bad u live so far away. Would wish u luck but I'm sure u don't need it

    Your have nice birthing hips, shame you don't have children!

    Hello fishy

    Hello. I'm George

    Hi There
    My name is Bill, would consider myself as funny, hard working, spontaneous and romantic. Love being outdoors hiking, swimming going out on the lake and heading to the mountains. I am ok with cooking dinner for you at home or taking you out fine dining. I enjoy trivia, all types of music except rap and I am sure if we talk we will hit it off.

    wow you look so amazing an stunning just the most beautiful woman.

    Hello
    Let me first start by saying thank you for being on here and how amazingly beautiful you are. I know you get hundreds of emails each day, I just thought maybe you would be interested in chatting with someone who is very honest, loyal, and loves to treat her like a princess. I hope you have had a great day and hope to hear from you soon. WOW is all I can say, you are soo amazing May I ask if you are open to chatting? I cant believe a woman like yourself is on hereYou have to be single by choice right? Sorry I wrote a book, just couldnt stop writing lol. Hope things are going well

    Jeremy

    Whats up Kate.. im Trey. Hows ur day going.

    Hi there! How the heck are you? Hope you are having a good week. So do I need a spinner bait or a crank bait?
    Seriously though you seem interesting! I would love to talk to hear from you. if you might be interested just let me know.
    You have a beautiful smile!

    Well, hello there. I checked out your profile and I think we could possibly be a match....check out mine and if the interest is mutual, drop me a line and we'll go from there.
    Eric

    Hi how are you ?

    hello how are u

    How r u?

    Absolutely beautiful

    I got the right bait if you got the right line so it want go to deep in the water

    Wanna chat?

    Hey cutie

    Hello

    Hi beautiful how’s your morning?

    Hey how’s it going?

    Good morning beautiful (after sending 3 other unanswered messages listed earlier)

    Hello.... How are you...?

    Do you have plans tonite?

    Morning beautiful

    Hi how are you?

    hello im buck. I like your profile.

    Good Friday morning to ya. How are ya? Had to email you cause your really really beautiful. Great pics.

    Good morning, I just wanted to see if you would like to chat...

    How is your search going?

    Greats pics and nice smile.

    Hey there, im Eric! I'm the guy who can change your oil, patch the drywall all by lunch, then clean up with all the grease gone look good in a suit for your best friends' wedding that afternoon. Make you dinner at night, tuck the kids in and rock your world after we go to bed if you want to know more, check the profile and respond anytime.

    I figured I would and to the flood of emails...LOL.. Very nice profilegirl.. You seem to be a very interesting lady.. Besides just being gorgeous.. I would love to chat sometime..
    Mac..

    hi kate (im guessing) i would like to meet you, im pretty sarcastic as well! im pretty good at playing practical jokes myself! so im up for the challange! im also a pretty funny guy, i try to find humor in everything except the really serious stuff. would love to get to know you better.

    Your simply gorgeous

    Wow! You’re amazing I would like to chat with you if your interested. Just let me know if you do. I hope to hear from you real soon OK? Thanks

    You are stunningly awe-inspiring. There's no reason someone as delightfully Alluring as your self should be single.
    (Same guy an hour later) I know I'm a little younger than you.. Don't hold it against me. I don't go out and party and drink. That's not the type of person I am. I still chase my dreams and achieve and set new goals all the time. I can prove to you that age is just a number.
    (Same guy the next day) Look I'm attracted to you I would like to get to know you. I am kind, attentive, caring, reliable, well-mannered man with a good sense of humor. also i am goal-oriented, self-established,not greedy and narrow-minded.. I know know how to treat a lady. i love children... I'm serious in my intentions to find the right lady and create a happy family. Not only do I appreciate not only your appearance but your inside world also.

    Hi there pretty lady. How are you?

    well if im not too country for you i know i can keep you on your toes until your ready for to scoop you up hold on for the rest of the night. my name is doug and hopefully you like my country date idea

    hi how are you?

    Hi I’m Matt

    Hello kitty

    Marry me?
    (same guy the next day) marry me?

    Do you like Mexican food & riding motorcycles?

    You have a bite

    Wow you're cute

    Hi i'm Carl how are you? do you like four wheeling?
    (2 days later- same guy) Hey Im Carl do you like four wheeling?
    (next day- same guy) hey how are you?

    How about for a first date,,,A beautiful day on Tims Ford Lake,go for a boat ride and have lunch at Bluegill Grill? Is that original?

    I've got the right bait,, you are to dam beautiful girl...

    Cute

    Hi there, Im sure you hear it 100 times per day but you are one beautiful woman! Id love to talk, and find out more about you. I hope you are enjoying this beautiful saturday evening and I hope to hear back from you! -Will

    Hi I'm Stephen

    Hello

    you certainly have the right bait....mama mia!

    I have been digging threw this site for a while now.. I have had zero luck ... And I come across you... You live so far away.. That it is so messed up... All we could have would be fantastic conversations... I love those by the way... But it's a long walk to get to kiss you.. That is of course, if and when it got to that point... If you have a transporter in your closet, I would live to talk to you.. If you don't .. You can start a deep conversation anyway...

    Hi, I'm J. Would you like to meet for food and maybe drinks after sometime?

    Hey how are you

    I know I'm older, but if like to find someone where there is still an option for children. I really enjoyed your profile. I wanted to see if you thought I might interest you. I think you'd be challenged to find a man local with the grounded, modest and stable lifestyle I try to live. I know there's probably better looking men out there. But someone who knows what loyalty is, is hard to find. Take a chance and at least meet me. For the record I am told I take horrible photo... Lol. I hope me sharing my number does send the message I'm looking for anything quick. I just don't want to look back and wish I'd have given you an avenue to contact me. I really look forward to hearing from you, and hope this message finds you in good spirits
    Chris
    615-456-xxxx

    Good afternoon, how are you today?
    I know I'm not in you're area but enjoyed you're profile and pics, wanted to stop by say hello and introduce myself, I'm Mike

    OMG Red dress!!!Wow I have the right bait for that! Lol ;P

    You sound smart.... let's chat lol

    You have a bite

    Hello Gr8Kate17
    I just found your profile and wanted to say hello. I understand you are getting many many E-Mails so I will not go on and on, but would like to learn more about you! I live in WInchester so you are not all that far away. You like many of the same things I do so hope to hear back if you like what you see in my profile! TTYS
    Buck

    Wow you’re cute
    (same guy 30 min later) Can I bother you for a minute of your time?

    Wanna party

    No need for bait when you have the right fishing pole?

    You are intimidating look at u..I'm just confident! I know I could handle u cs I'm as rare as the come! I mean I know i could please u IF I ever Had tha chance! just speaking from my experience cs i blow womens minds when i get down to business lol ;P

    You look great! Im sure you get that alot. If I spark your interest Please let me know! Im brand new at this internet dating stuff. As you can tell.

    Well good morning,how are you on this wonderful Sunday? So are you having a great weekend? I was reading your profile and I am interested in learning more about you if that's possible so therefore would you like to chat sometime in the near future? I hope you have a great day!!

    How are you doing today gorgeous. You have some very gorgeous eyes. I would love to talk and get to know you and maybe sometime go out. Im not going to tell you what we would do but if we did go out I would let you know what you should bring with you. Nothing bad but I promise it would be fun and that you would not forget me after it all. I hope you have a great day.
    Shane


    Hey you,
    How are you? We should chat sometime. How's life treating you?

    Hi there how are you?

    Are you interested in a man that does have kids?

    im im the hottest guy here

    Oh wow.... Great photos...... you are a very pretty young woman. :-)
    Love to chat more as you seem like an interesting person.
    Hope you had a good day.

    How are you doing? I'm Michael.

    Hello. First let me say that I enjoyed reading your profile. You know what you want and what's important to you. That is a rare quality today. Your words touched me and made perfect sense! I am new to all this on line dating stuff. I don't know what quite to expect. I am interested in knowing more about what you like. I am sure you get several emails a day. I only ask that you take a look at my profile and if you too are interested write me back
    PS... respect is a big deal for me. I also think a man should be a man and chivalry is not dead. I love children and one day dream of a family with or without them.
    I would like to take you to play some Frisbee golf and see if we connect!!

    Hi how are you

    Hi, I'm Scott. How are you doing? I'm not very good at this online dating thing, don't really know what to say...lol I would love to hear from you.

    Hello, my name is James.

    Hey there. I enjoyed reading about you. How has your weekend been? Do anything fun? What is you favorite city you've ever visited? I feel like we have a bit in common. Some things i enjoy doing: live trivia, poker, Predators and Titans games but my passion right now is international travel and always looking for the next destination. If you are looking for an immature guy or a guy with no job who doesn't have his own house and who isn't looking for a serious relationship, then please don't reply. If not, I Would love to get to know more about you.
    Randy
    PS Exactly what shade of beautiful are your eyes?

    Hey sexy

    Good morning. Hope you are having a great day

    Hey how are you doing today? I liked your profile and wanted to say hello. Ps, this is an attempt to spark your interest and to elicit a response.

    What a beautiful lady!! Fun-lover here, as well. I do have my head screwed on straight... hard-working government civilian by day... exciting fun-loving southern gentleman by night! Wicked sense of humor, huh? I "ain't" scared!! I can take you!! Just so you know... I love feisty and sassy!! Also like having my buttons pushed!! Just know... I will dish it back!!
    I have a great sense of humor... or so I have been told my whole life. I would love the opportunity to make you laugh... charm you like you have never been charmed before... and sweep you off of your gorgeous lil' feet. I do believe I could have you hooked... just so you know.
    So, a shy guy... I am not. Timid guy... I am not. Initiating contact with you... I AM! Wanting to spark your interest... I AM! Waiting for you to respond back to me... I AM! Wanting to take you out on a first date you will not forget... I AM! I look foward to talking with you soon.
    Terry

    Hi how are you? Would you be interested in talking sometime?

    hey there how are u doing tonight

    Hey I'm Bradley, how are you? I just read your profile and thought I'd say hey. I'd love to talk sometime and get to know you. You seem like a wonderful person to be around and are absolutely beautiful! If you're interested in talking please feel free to send me a message anytime! I hope to hear from you soon and have a wonderful night!

    Hello. My name is Terry

    Whiii woooo... Girl you are gorgeous

    Hi! very beautiful! Just saying!

    Hello beautiful! How are you this evening?

    Hi pretty

    Can i have a chance to make you happy sexy

    Hello kate this is chris i read your profile and i am really interested in getting to know you.please read my profile and if you like what you read send me a message

    Well I'm Scotty if u wanna chatt sometime

    hey lady what's going on? mike here really like your pictures and profile. thought we might mesh well if you would like to chat.

    hi how are u today..... im Ma' jin im very interested in getting to know u ....im from Huntsville..

    That red dress pic is just plain hot, thought I would mention that

    Just wondering if you'd be interested in talking? Hope you have a Gr8 day!


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Yeah, these are all lame. I sent one on okc last night that i thought was pretty hilarious. She apparently didn't like it. She had napping listed as one of her things she's really good at, so i say to her:

    Hey, I bet I'm better at napping than you are! I can sleep standing up like a Conehead. Can you do that?

    She never replied lol. I'm still getting a kick out of it though!

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I forgot to mention above...
    All these messages are in order as they were received.
    So pay close attention!!!

    Anything that just says "Hi, Hello, Hey there" etc... will be totally ignored.

    Also, do NOT try to sell yourself like another group of these lame-heads are doing.

    And for goodness sake, don't be as insecure & UN-confident as another batch of those douchebags are!!

    Be quick, precise, interesting & FUN!

    This thread is probably THE BIGGEST & MOST HELPFUL thread you'll ever see on the subject of "online dating into messages that suck."

    So, if you've ever tried online dating & had crappy results; ask yourself if you've ever sent message like any of the ones listed above.

    If so? THERE'S your answer.

    You need to stand out from these schmucks! And as you can see, THAT can be difficult when your message gets buried in a pile of crap that she has to wade through.

    I TRULY hope you take the time to read this thread in its entirety...
    Doing so, may be the difference between success & failure.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Quote Originally Posted by sirprize View Post
    Yeah, these are all lame. I sent one on okc last night that i thought was pretty hilarious. She apparently didn't like it. She had napping listed as one of her things she's really good at, so i say to her:

    Hey, I bet I'm better at napping than you are! I can sleep standing up like a Conehead. Can you do that?

    She never replied lol. I'm still getting a kick out of it though!

    Napping huh? That was definitely an open door for something special.
    You COULD HAVE, sent something like, "I don't know how it is for you, but for me, napping is like time-travel. I close my eyes... open them... & it's a couple hours in the future!
    Next time you're napping, why don't you find out the winning lottery numbers for a mega-jackpot for us? "


    Yeah, it's kinda cheesy... but it's REALLY playful & fun.
    THAT'S the kind of stuff that gets attention & compels her to write back.



    But your cone-head approach was at least original, & probably nothing like she's ever gotten! So that's definitely on the right track.

    But also- don't worry if a girl doesn't respond. I don't have a 100% response rate either. And I don't care.

    Because, the girls who ignore or dislike my messages, are probably not the type I'm going to be attracted to anyway... despite how "good looking" she may be.

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I've been getting some good feedback from using a simple open ended question:

    Me: "You know why you're lucky?"

    HB:"Why?" (They almost always reply with this)

    Me:"Because I messaged you before all the creeps did"

    HB:"No most already have!" (again, they pretty much reply with something along these lines)

    then just transition to conversation from here. Tried this on 12 different girls and it's worked on 7 of them. It's worth a shot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EightBall View Post
    I've been getting some good feedback from using a simple open ended question:

    Me: "You know why you're lucky?"

    HB:"Why?" (They almost always reply with this)

    Me:"Because I messaged you before all the creeps did"

    HB:"No most already have!" (again, they pretty much reply with something along these lines)

    then just transition to conversation from here. Tried this on 12 different girls and it's worked on 7 of them. It's worth a shot.

    Again, you're on the right track.

    But don't get in the habit of copying canned lines that have been used too many times. The idea is there... but change it up a bit & make it your own.

    It's like the "stay home & play video games" opener...
    It was good for a while, but now it's been used WAAAAAAAY too many times & girls are aware of it. It's losing it's effect.


    Just start blending ideas from everywhere.... and experiment to see what works best for you, in conjunction with your true personality.
    THAT'S when you'll see the best results.


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    That is freaking hysterical!!! Thanks for the post T-Mal

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    You're welcome.
    It's been an entertaining event, gathering this info!
    LOL


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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    I now see why I typically get such great responses on POF. I never send this kind of crap ahahahahahaha. This has honestly turned me off to even complimenting a girl online now. Not that I would really ever compliment to being with. It's just the idea of it now stings me in the ass.

    Great post!

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    Default Re: T-Mal says, DON"T DO THIS!!

    Exactly!

    Complementing, OR sounding insecure & trying to sell yourself to the girl, will get you nowhere.

    If a guy sends messages like that, he may as well drop a cement block on his own nuts, because that's the best action he's gonna get.



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