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    AlexandreUU is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Think I might have messed up Need help

    So I met this girl and I got her number. So far shes the type that takes a year to write back. From the times we've met face to face there has been an indication from her side that shes willing to be playful and accept playful attitude. But since texting sometimes is hard to detect sarcasm I might need some help interpreting this one. So please any advice would be very appreciated.

    Ok, so she recently promised to check something out for me and I text her to ask if she had done it already.

    me: hey its me, did you get a chance to check out that thing you said you would do for me

    her: you are going to have to jug my memory.

    me: shame on you for forgetting! and here i thought we were having a deep, long lasting, thought provoking conversation about (the subject she said she would check out) what the hell am I talking about? lol smh naw dont sweat it, its all good.

    her: are you sure that was me?

    me: yes lol lots of pressure lately? care to vent?

    she didnt respond. skip to next day and she sends me another text now asking me if we're having a pop quiz in class.

    Her: is that writing assignment due tomorrow?

    me: oh hey Ms forgetful, yeah I believe it is tomorrow. you ready?

    Her: no. i am not. better start on reading

    next day.

    Her: are you sure its today.

    I didn't respond to her. went to class. saw her but didn't say anything to her nor her to me. found out the quiz is actually this Thursday. so i text her after class saying

    me: guess it wasn't. this Thursday then. you see, I actually knew that already, I just told you something else because i wanted to test you

    her: what!? punk

    me: you failed so easily lol I wanted to see if your intelligence extended your cuteness. I guess not. being pretty is all you got going on. must be hard lol

    her: ....how rude

    me: I'm only kidding lol you know that right?

    and now its been 4 hours since I last send that and she hasnt written back. am I in trouble here? was I really too rude? really wasnt my intention. Please help.

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    Default Re: Think I might have messed up Need help

    Well, this is simple bro,

    Take it like this... you're negging her too much and you're also mixing up your hoops.... create smaller hoops... in the beginning the hoop you wanted her to jump through was just too big and so she held back... she actually likes you but if you aren't careful, you run the risk of being thrown into the friend zone while some other dude sweeps her off her feet.

    My advice, is that you try to be more genuine, she's (sudconsciously) looking for congruence. So take it easy, she's not going to like the idea of you intentionally testing her, even if you did, you shouldn't let her know. Remember she's a woman, in the back of her head she's thinking that's the same lines you throw at other women.

    Take a step back. Sometimes there's nothing in admitting you were wrong. In the mean time don't focus all your attention on this one girl. Don't try to figure her out too much. Practice gaming other women to sharpen your skills. You'll do fine. Concerning her,try this... surprise her with something, for example try a photo routine or something, get her to see that you're not just a blatant guy.

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    Default Re: Think I might have messed up Need help

    Don't worry if it's been just a couple hours.

    You're also not coming off as confident at all... You keep apologizing & /or asking for permission for the most part.
    You're supplicating to her & giving her all the control of your interactions.

    You should never have to remind a girl who you are.
    Even if she doesn't have your number in her phone, she should recognize your texts as being from YOU, immediately.

    You DO have a foot on the right path though.
    It just takes practice & experience to start "seeing the matrix".


    Trust me, less than 2 years ago I was screwing it up left & right!!! So I speak from experience.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Think I might have messed up Need help

    So how should I have had replied then? What should I have had said? Detailed instructions would be very appreciated please. What was wrong? What was right? What should stay? What should go? What need more work? Apart from also practicing on other girls, how should I continue with this one? What should be my next move? Should I text her again? Maybe use the Thursday's quiz as an opening theme? Or wait till then when I see her and just talk to her?

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    Default Re: Think I might have messed up Need help

    She was attracted toy thats why you got the number.your opener was not best as if you were using that to get to her but she knew you were hitting on her.

    Freeze her out and engage with :hey met your twin..same mannerisms

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    Default Re: Think I might have messed up Need help

    Don't worry if you're in trouble or not... And do not whatever you do apologize to her( it'll show you're weak and honestly what you said wasn't something for her to get mad about). For now do not initiate contact with her even if she texts you ( punish her for calling you rude for no reason). And come on dude if you're trying to get with this girl you should be building attraction instead of the small talk bull sh1t. I'm pretty sure she knows you want her so why not go for it instead of beating around the bush..... ESCALATE!!!! ESCALATE!!!!!!!!
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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