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Thread: LJBF after multiple f closes

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    Default LJBF after multiple f closes

    I went out with this girl, f closed first date. Went out 2 more times since, f closed both times but the last one we stopped early...I couldn't get it fully hard cuz i was pretty drunk. Now I tried to invite her out for drinks this friday and she said she could go out that night but just as friends. I replied, "yep that's cool" after a couple more texts about something irrelevant she said "oh and I mean just friends, not FWB, no sex". Again I acted indifferent and said "not a problem, things were moving kinda fast anyway".

    I'm pretty sure she's still talking to her ex so I'm thinking that's why she's gone cold but i also may have been too sexual with her without building enough comfort. I'm talking to a few different girls right now so its not one-itis by any means but still would like to have sex with her again. Should I still go with her friday and try to f close? Or not go at all? How should I treat this situation?

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    If your gonna go out with her and try to f close and she is not into it. My first reaction is the "Let's NOT just be friends". As in "I enjoy what we do, I have enough friends, if you don't wanna be friends with benefits, then I'm really not interested". Don't be a dick about it, just explain it to her, then leave.

    Mean it and walk away. Don't call her, if she calls you, then let her know you still feel the same way.

    If she is still hung up on her ex, then it will take her some time to get over it. Or if things get shitty with him, she'll call you up for comfort. Some people can't be alone.

    If you meet up with her, have a few drinks, do some Kino routines, get her hot, maybe she will change her mind.

    I'm kind of all over the place on this one, but I hope it helps Bro.

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    acting indifferent is perfect, make it like you don't care, like you are an Alpha Male with plenty of girls who will F you, then go out with her and turn up the heat ..... see what happens

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    Hang out with her, but don't f-close unless it absolutely comes to that. Women want to feel wanted, and not like sex dolls. Hang out with her and build the comfort up. Keep your game on strong, keep the Kino up, flirt, etc, just at the end of the day, give her a kiss and then leave. She'll come running back in the near future. Trust me.

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    How was the sex? And why not just get a new girl?

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    Figured I should update just to say what happened. She hit me up asking if we were still going out, I said sure. I did everything perfect. Was funny, Kino'd a lot (no sexual kino, just a lot of touching), was a great day. We went for drinks, she even paid (I offered the tip). We went to Ralph's and got a bottle of wine and before we could even drink it she was on top of me in the back seat of my car. Fucked her good and hard.

    Saved the bottle of wine for the following week where she came to my place and we fucked again. I'm pretty sure it was all a shit test and because I acted indifferent instead of being pissed or crying I passed. Sex is good...no great. She's not the tightest out there but she does anything I tell her to do in bed. She's a keeper :P

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    Default Re: LJBF after multiple f closes

    Quote Originally Posted by OG_PlMP View Post
    Figured I should update just to say what happened. She hit me up asking if we were still going out, I said sure. I did everything perfect. Was funny, Kino'd a lot (no sexual kino, just a lot of touching), was a great day. We went for drinks, she even paid (I offered the tip). We went to Ralph's and got a bottle of wine and before we could even drink it she was on top of me in the back seat of my car. farked her good and hard.

    Saved the bottle of wine for the following week where she came to my place and we farked again. I'm pretty sure it was all a shit test and because I acted indifferent instead of being pissed or crying I passed. Sex is good...no great. She's not the tightest out there but she does anything I tell her to do in bed. She's a keeper :P
    Nice!! Thanks for the update. Well done!


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