Newly single from recent 3 month relationship, and LTR prior so learning the game. I have 3-4 women regularly chatting over last week. One online match tells me going to be in my town for business function, I suggest meeting and she is not driving but gives me her number and says will try to meet up if they go for drinks. I get the call and meet her at bar 30 mins later. This is a business executive group, in mid 40's, few yrs older than me.
We meet then she says some other guy showed up unexpected. WTF? I join them anyway and end up chatting with her collegues even though we are sitting next to each other. The other guy has his arm around her and she doesn't talk to me.
She pulls me aside and apologizes, is pretty tipsy and says it wasn't planned that he is a customer. We talk for 5 mins, she shows me her phone which has txts from her collegues telling her they like me better. We have our hands on each others thighs and I say its what you think that matters, i don't give a fuck about the other guy. We depart no kiss, i hug her friend, who whispers this was very awkward. I shake her partners hand and then the other guy that showed refuses and says some shit to me, which i say fuck off.
What the heck just happend? I don't think i should txt her, just chalk it up as a loss.