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    Geo149 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Texting Freeze out from her?

    Hey guys!
    I have been texting this girl for quite a few weeks and all of a sudden things started to get slower. Once they did i started looking for solutions online and came across this site. I have learned alot from the ultimate texting guide.

    The situation im currently in: HB8.5
    Been texting a girl for about 3 weeks, i have done quite a few of the things suggested in the ultimate guide without even knowing and i think my biggest issue was not capitolising on these as i had not yet found that guide! Anyways flash forward to 3 weeks later and we are having a conversation and all of a sudden she starts to flake me. So i stop texting her for a couple of days. Then a couple of days later she posts some facebook status "feeling unloved" now i am well aware of the millions of dicks theory and this was more than likely not meant for me. So i text her asking how shes doing, she just said its one of those nights and how is my friday night going? i invite her over to watch some horror movies to take her mind off things but she declines saying she wouldnt want to cramp my style. I push again but she doesnt really show any movement on coming around. She texts me just before she goes to bed like she used to when she seemed really interested.
    What steps can i take to re-engage her ?(if i can, if i can't ill let it go)

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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    First the attraction is depleting because you've texted her for THEEE WEEKS!!( idk if it was everyday or not.. If it was everyday then that's bad). You don't text a girl that much then she gets used to it and she knows you don't really have anything going on in your life( nothing that interests her actually that shows you're a MAN, a fun guy). You got to stop texting her and let her second guess if you like her ( you probably know this but women love guys they can't hold, that keeps them seconding guessing.). Anyway for now don't text her unless she texts you first so you can be in control again. Do not text her everyday.


    Second you can't throw a temper tantrum when women flake on you( yeah I know it pisses you off and makes you feel like she's not interested, we've all been there.) when she flakes just ask her which day would be good for you guys to reschedule. If she doesn't give a date just wait and try again. When you stop texting her just because she flakes It makes you seem weak and like an AFC because only they do that type of crap( I just recently got over mine. But it takes time man). Talk to other girls and just live your life. I heard it a lot but now I'm finally coming to realize it: IF A GIRL DOESN'T LIKE YOU OR EVEN IF YOU DON'T GET A TEXT FROM HER OR A CALL JUST TO FILL THAT LITTLE HOLE IN OUR HEART THAT SHOWS SOMEONE CARES ABOUT US DOESN'T MEAN YOUR LIFE WILL END. Go live life and talk to women... You can still save this, just play it cool and don't be all over her.. Let her text first before you text her for a while so you can get control again.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    Thanks for your reply, yeah i completely agree about not texting her until she texts me again. I am really going to start working on my aa using the fear method mentioned in the intro forum.
    Thanks again.

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    Geo149 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    UPDATE:
    It's my birthday today here's the transcript of the conversation
    HB: HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUTIE (kiss emoji)
    Me: Thanks HB So did you get me anything?
    HB: My love and respect is your present
    Me: Well i was hoping you'd take me out to dinner.
    HB: haha Dinner and a show it is!
    Me: I'm free tonight

    How am i doing? and where should i go next? she hasn't replied yet (no doubt busy)

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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    Quote Originally Posted by Geo149 View Post
    UPDATE:
    It's my birthday today here's the transcript of the conversation
    HB: HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUTIE (kiss emoji)
    Me: Thanks HB So did you get me anything?
    HB: My love and respect is your present
    Me: Well i was hoping you'd take me out to dinner.
    HB: haha Dinner and a show it is!
    Me: I'm free tonight

    How am i doing? and where should i go next? she hasn't replied yet (no doubt busy)
    How'd that go? Sounds promising dude. I've found a lot of times when girls flake it's just cause they're... flakey.. and there's really no deeper cause (like they don't like you/trying to avoid you/etc). Just keep up the confidence she's into you dude.

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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    yeah I know it pisses you off and makes you feel like she's not interested, we've all been there.
    Aint that the truth ..... if we only had a dollar for every guy who didn't get a respond to a text !!!!

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    Default Re: Texting Freeze out from her?

    Quote Originally Posted by Geo149 View Post
    UPDATE:
    It's my birthday today here's the transcript of the conversation
    HB: HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUTIE (kiss emoji)
    Me: Thanks HB So did you get me anything?
    HB: My love and respect is your present
    Me: Well i was hoping you'd take me out to dinner.
    HB: haha Dinner and a show it is!
    Me: I'm free tonight

    How am i doing? and where should i go next? she hasn't replied yet (no doubt busy)
    Did she reply? Next time leave off the winking face. Also, you shouldve said im free x-day because tonight (being your actual Bday) there's NO way you are free.


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