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    Default perfect girl but going downhill

    hey,
    i have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 months now and everything had been going perfect, up until now.

    Recently she has told me twice she is loosing the buzz that she used to have in the relationship. The first time she blamed it on us not seeing each other in a while (it had been a week), however when i did see her the next day, she said she must of just been tired as she feels like its all fine now, and everything went back to being all loved up.

    Fast Forward another week and pretty much the same thing happens. On the way back to her house the conversation quickly ran dry, and i seemed to be the last thing on her mind with her constantly being on her phone. She later tells me that she again feels like the buzz is gone, but she she still loves me very much, and really wants to be with me but she doesn't know what to do.

    At this point im pretty confused as to what to do as it seems that one day everything is going perfectly and then the next were on the verge of breaking up.

    i have been thinking about how i have been acting with her and i guess i haven't really been acting very Alpha which could have caused her to lose intrest in me.

    So my questions is what do you think i should do, and how do i become more Alpha without her thinking that something is suddenly wrong and thus make her lose interest?

    many thanks

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    Default Re: perfect girl but going downhill

    have you done any activities that encourage both of you to try to get out of your comfort zone, or try something new that you could talk about for a while? Like watch a show you've just heard about, or go to and event you wish you wanted too. Or how about switch up the routine when you go out for a night on the town

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    Default Re: perfect girl but going downhill

    There are way too many factors that could be a part of this, both on her side and yours. Would need more information. Research google on the common reasons relationships break down and see if anything stands out. If you get an idea (or even if you don't), we can give you some advice on what to do next.

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    Default Re: perfect girl but going downhill

    thanks for the tip but i pretty much have rattled it down to one thing and i have acted on it and its showing immediate results

    i realised that the balance of investment in the relationship was heavily weighted on my side and this caused disinterest as it no longer made i a chase as she took the attention for granted.
    i realised that previously i was always the one initiating conversation and plans and i was constantly telling her how much i miss her/like her. In addition we used to text 24/7 which would inevitably lead to the conversation becoming stale and boring.

    so what i decided to do was just pretty much reserve myself and let her do all the investment. i started negging her more and generally talk to her less so when we did talk, it made it more of a catch up session rather then a live feed of my life.


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