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    Default Did I turned out like creep?

    I work as as salesman, and several days ago I met a beautiful girl at work. She showed a lot of interest for me and smiled the whole time, but since there were lot of customers in the shop I had to work and so I didnīt get her number.

    But later, I went through the credit cards receipts and found her name on one of them. So I googled her, and found out that she works as a police woman where my friend works. So I texted my friend to get her number, and got it. So I contacted her, but on the first SMS she didnīt respond anything. So I sent the second SMS to completely introduce myself, and I told her that since the shop was crowded I couldnīt get her number. And I also explained how I got her number from my friend. She just said that it was little mean from me to get her number like that. So I texted her the third message to ask her why sheīs not on Facebook, and after that she didnīt respond anything.

    I suppose she thinks that Iīm a creep and a freak, what do you think?

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    Default Re: Did I turned out like creep?

    yeah... you should always directly ask for the number, getting it from a mutual friend is creepy enough, let alone figuring out who she is by doing detective work (or if you do any detective work don't let her find out)

    instead of getting her number from your friend, you should have just figured out where she would be and find a way to "accidently bump into her again somewhere" (that way it appears to be a coincidence and thus not creepy)

    there's nothing more that you can do with this girl, you made her think of you as a psycho, her view isn't going to change
    you've gotta just get back up and dust yourself off, then move on to the next one and hopefully not make the same mistakes

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    Default Re: Did I turned out like creep?

    Yeah bro...one thing i learnt is don't ever text or call a girl if she didn't give you her number. Unless you know her very well...

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    Default Re: Did I turned out like creep?

    Yeah, thank you guys for your replies, I realize it now that I made terrible mistake. I feel so awful now, itīs unbelievable..

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    Default Re: Did I turned out like creep?

    Well yeah that's just a bad way to go anytime. This is what oneitis will do to you folks, make you weak and AFC. While there may be no recovering from this and I do advise nexting this broad it still teaches us and reminds us of a very valuable lesson. It's a rather loaded dice type situation here. First remember with any new babe you have no social proof, value, etc till you demonstrate (without trying too hard) to get into comfort. Girls in the Bars and Clubs this takes a little convo, flirting, and sometimes before they feel comfortable to give their phone number. Sometimes they are so into me I can get their number in under 5 minutes but sometimes it takes 30 minutes after multipel approaches and passing objections to get there.

    However in this situation you are in here this is a random one-off scenario. Now remember I recommend like I mentioned in the Project Iceshield Part 1 in the "How to Talk to Women" section where the target rich locals are. Mystery Method recommends 4-5 target rich locals that we frequent them however I listed about 10. So to keep it simple I am going next year to frequent 4-5 locals

    1. Bars
    2. Clubs
    3. Water Park
    4. Outdoor Malls
    5. Amusement Parks

    I will frequent these locals and buy a season pass to the parks but frequent the others during the Summer and so forth more frequently and other times less frequently. Now that's my foundation, that's your foundation a programmed schedule of regularly going out which produces a side-effect of being non-needy thus making you higher value thus giving you less oneitis. Essentially the goal here is to never go AFC which you can do by actively and occasionally approachign which thus causes you to avoid situations like this since you are in abundance Mindset and not scarcity.
    101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.


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