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Thread: Girl needs guy's opinion!

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    Default Girl needs guy's opinion!

    Is he ignoring bc he's having a mood swing or ignoring bc he's over it....?

    I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months and he have not even come close to having an argument or disagreement. However, this past weekend we were supposed to hang out but when he asked me earlier in the week we did not make it clear which day we were going to hang (Friday or Saturday, which has been our usual routine). We usually choose Saturday bc we are both tired from work on Friday nights and then he goes to the gym. On friday, I asked him if we were going to hang out on Saturday bc there was a sports thing on Saturday night that I figured he'd want to watch. I told him it was fine if he wanted to watch it and that I could make other plans. He did not answer the question and I asked him 2xs. So on Saturday I didn't hear from him all day (which is unusual) so I txd him around 2 and asked if we were still on for that night. No response. Then at 5:30 I just said I hope everything is ok and that its weird he wasn't responding. He wrote back 2 hours later and said he was in the gym and sorry but he wasn't in a good mood earlier. I just wrote him that it was ok and that I wasn't trying to nag but all I wanted was a yes/no answer and that I hope he feels better. no reply. Then I wrote that since we met we have talked all day every day and if he needs space I understand and I'll back off. That was yesterday. No reply since. This is the longest we have gone without talking since we've met.

    Now this pst Tuesday (before this happened) he told me he missed me (which was the 1st time he said that) and he also said he was looking forward to hanging with me this weekend on Wednesday. Even when I tried to tell him to go to sleep on Wednesday he didn't stop texting me till about 11:30. Thursday and Friday we didn't text AS MUCH but still a lot, initiated by him. So why is he ignoring me? Maybe it IS just a bad mood. But for 2 days? And what would be so hard to just say you wanted to stay home or do something else this wknd? Why ignore me? Thanks for reading

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    Default Re: Girl needs guy's opinion!

    something doesnt add up. like u said it's not hard to text saying "not feeling well, talk to u later".
    i cant help anymore without knowing much about his character or events going on in his life.
    i suggest u lay off.. if he doesnt have the time (5 secs) to text u for a few days, then it's either he's going through some terrible shit or he's over it (sorry).
    if he reintiates contact then all is well. but for ur well being i recommend u figure out why the sudden disappearance AFTER contact has been reestablished and the mood is right. u dont want him to use the asshole card on u by saying "you're being too clingy".
    some men can be jerks...

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    Default Re: Girl needs guy's opinion!

    When you say "dating" I'm going to assume you mean that you are NOT in an exclusive relationship. Because of that then the most likely reason for this behavior is that he is exploring another dating option. Of course he wouldn't tell you that since he wouldn't want to upset you or lose you. And it wouldn't be fair if you held that against him. It's perfectly healthy to date multiple people if that is what you are into.

    If you are getting serious about him then maybe it's time to discuss a relationship. Granted it is still fairly early and there's still much to learn about each other, but it could help bring you two closer and maybe have an actual argument for the first time. Lol

    If you are not trying to get serious yet then just accept that you are not exclusive to each other and are free to explore other options.

    As for what you should do at this time...just keep being yourself. If you start questioning him and acting insecure I can guarantee you will push him away. You're better off behaving as if you have no competition with other women because you understand your value and no other woman comes close. He will see that while the other girl gets insecure and he will come back to you. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Girl needs guy's opinion!

    Hi BatMan,
    Yes I understand that at 2months it is not fair to expect someone to commit. However, ignoring our plans that we made earlier in the week (that HE initiated) and ignoring ME when I asked him if we were still on that night is not acceptable behavior idc who the girl is or what she looks like lol this is so unlike him and I'm pretty confused. I'm just going to leave him alone for awhile and see what happens. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Girl needs guy's opinion!

    Yes he's in a bad mood. Yes for 2 days.

    He's happy with you but not everything is fine.

    Nothing serious.


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