The other day I was hanging out with a girl I'm pursuing. We were sitting on my floor, talking when I started in with some Kino, rubbing her back. Then I started massaging her knee, while staying perfectly focused on what she was saying, letting her know I was listening. We moved in to my bedroom, and she sprawls out on my bed, face down. We're still talking, but now I'm gently brushing my fingers on her ears and the exposed skin on her lower back, and brushing her hair with my fingers. We end up cuddling on my bed, no words, just holding each other. It is late, and she has to be up early for work the next morning. I offer to let her spend the night, but she refuses. She gets up to leave, and I ask her for a hug. She complies, and we are embracing one another for a long while. I start kissing her neck, but as I move for her ears she gives me a quick kiss on the neck and pulls away. She heads for the front door, I follow her, and we are standing there saying our goodbyes, when SHE leans in to kiss me. I give her the most impassioned kiss of my lifetime, keep in mind that this is the first time we have ever kissed each other. She leaves, and I say "See ya." Or something to that effect. She turns around with a smile and responds, "Oh, I'll definitely be back."
I was drinking with my room mate the next day, and called her. Maybe it was a mistake to call her up right away. Then I called her again a few days later to offer her a date. Neither time I have I gotten any kind of response from her. Part of me is thinking that I should confront her at work, but I don't want to make the same mistake a third time, if indeed I did make a mistake. Another part of me is thinking that I should just forget her and start seeking out other women, and if she comes around then great. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I also just read this thread on mixed signals.