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    kilimanjaro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Yowyow, Im new here and to make things short I send this message ' im going to rob a bank this weekend, are you in?'

    She replied very shortly with 'no thanks'.

    How can i deal this the best way? Can i turn the situation around to let her qualify herself. Some advice is welcome.

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    There nothing much for you to do.. You can just leave it with that answer or you can play it off on that like " omg, you're so horrible, just know when I get you'll be my first call." This play with it
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Tread cautiously with such statements directly.she may have actually thought you..

    ..
    Well am going to sell off your fat jewelry to pay off the kids school fees
    ...

    Know roles in and out prior to presentation...

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Thanks mates
    I answered the following

    she: no thanks
    me: Well it might be for the best since you would only slow me down ayway.. nevertheless I still have to fire you ( we were talking before about space travelling and i hired her as my assistant)

    Now she hasn't messaged back on this message so I was thinking to send something like the following:

    ''Seems like i don't know you that well, thought you were more exciting geeg. You don't rob banks, you make my homework, are scared to meet, ... What else nerdball?''

    Before ( my last message to her) i send her a math comparison and said she need to solve it, which she tried to solve and which i left unreplied.

    Any suggestion to calibrate or better alternatives to send (change topic, neg, Push Pull,...)?

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Probably heard it before or not into that..either way you may move on...engage another time

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Hey guys,

    To give a little update, I saw that I forget to mention she has a boyfriend.

    After some back and fort texting ytd and flirting for two weeks she all of the sudden sends me

    her: Stop this game cuz I'm not in anymore. I wanna be a loyal girlfriend

    Which I replied to: Why so defensive all of the sudden? Don't think there is a reason for not being loyal...
    I thought we could have gotten along well ( breaking of from her games)

    She replied this morning: morning, I slept early ytd cuz i need to work at ..:..
    Im tired already. Well it's too late to go to the park we mentioned before ( we talked about that before as a place to meet)

    What are the members take on this?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Quote Originally Posted by kilimanjaro View Post
    Hey guys,

    To give a little update, I saw that I forget to mention she has a boyfriend.

    After some back and fort texting ytd and flirting for two weeks she all of the sudden sends me

    her: Stop this game cuz I'm not in anymore. I wanna be a loyal girlfriend

    Which I replied to: Why so defensive all of the sudden? Don't think there is a reason for not being loyal...
    I thought we could have gotten along well ( breaking of from her games)

    She replied this morning: morning, I slept early ytd cuz i need to work at ..:..
    Im tired already. Well it's too late to go to the park we mentioned before ( we talked about that before as a place to meet)

    What are the members take on this?

    Cheers
    You did too much text..
    Best to let go at least she was attracted

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    We were talking about she drives to work by car and not and she said my bf lend me his car sometimes after i asked which car she had..

    My reply was

    He seems like a nice guy for lending you his car, for sure I wouldn't do that. How long have u been together?

    Her: We have been togetehr since 2009 june
    yes he is a nice guy and thats why im trying to be nice too

    how should I reply this?

    I thought sending something along the lines like:

    me: Woow, thatís must be tottaly the longest relationship you are in. You guys must be perfect together after such a long time
    So how did you two meet?

    Any thoughts anyone? or better replies to send?

    Cheers bro's

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    "My ex girlfriend was really 'nice'.wnt believe what she went and did."

    here she is messing with you sort of anything that drifts into another charged topic may suffice.,

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    Default Re: Question how to reply on a unexpected reply

    Quote Originally Posted by kilimanjaro View Post
    We were talking about she drives to work by car and not and she said my bf lend me his car sometimes after i asked which car she had..

    My reply was

    He seems like a nice guy for lending you his car, for sure I wouldn't do that. How long have u been together?

    Her: We have been togetehr since 2009 june
    yes he is a nice guy and thats why im trying to be nice too

    how should I reply this?

    I thought sending something along the lines like:

    me: Woow, that’s must be tottaly the longest relationship you are in. You guys must be perfect together after such a long time
    So how did you two meet?

    Any thoughts anyone? or better replies to send?

    Cheers bro's
    Why would you wanna mess with her relationship with this guy? You wanna take her out and seduce her, not writing her biography, right?

    Never ask questions like these, this shows insecurity. Also, you write way too much text and then add a closed question that she can simply answer with "yes" or "no", which she did. No good, you're trying too hard and are too much invested at that point.

    Another point on openers like these, don't get too creative. It shows the girl you are trying hard and it's perceived ridiculous. It's good to add some fun and jokes, once you know her energy and flow, but not to start off. It's the same with pick-up lines, something for kids, not for grown men though! Instead, get something across she can relate to and she will reward it!

    Keep your messages short and lightly. Find out some common interest or something you can contribute to and take her out for a drink or a public event. This is non-threatening, because it's not intimate. Don't ask her to join you for the theaters at this time, for example, this might be too intimate at this time.

    No need to waste more time online, get her to meet you in person, nothing compares to it!

    Hope that helps!
    sedux


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