Ok so there is this black girl at my school im super attracted too and I want some solid advice. Some backround info is that she is friends w one of my guy friends who practically lives at my house(cuz its huge an he hates the dorms). Now this girl comes over like once a week talking about how she gets relationship counseling and shit for her controlling ex bf. She basically hates the way she gets treated but this guy has a total mental grip on this girl. Anyway he broke it off with her and then he tried to get her back and she hasnt said yes but shes always hanging out, well arguing with this guys still. One of the times she said she broke it off and was driving me t get a tattoo. We were talking about relationships she was saying she hates hers and feels so trapped. So finding her attractive and feeling this weird vibe like ive only ever felt w my first love I was like you should just go to dinner with me. She was like no I;m in this bad situation blah blah blah so I was like its cool i get it your not feeling me like that. Shes like no thats not it at all i just dated this guy for two years he was my first love i feel like thats cheating. I was like why you broke up. Ya but you dont understand he comes to my place, my friends house, and places i go if i dont talk to him. Im like that is ridiculous, then I asked are you attracted to me and shes like ya your defineately good looking. So I was like do you wanna go on a date with me? Shes like yes. I was like then just do it what have u got to lose I am not asking yu for marriage. Shes like but what if he does what he did to max to you I dont want to put you into my shitty relationship right now.(what he did was threaten my friend max saying hes never allowed to talk to her). I was like i dont care I think your worth it. Her lip starts to quiver and she hold back a tear. I could tell that struck a cord somewhere in her. And she was like alright lets go ill do it. So we never picked the date and she dropped me off. Well i know she isnt just gna leave her man even tho she agreed to our date he is just too controlling. I told her how i felt and could tell she felt it too but shes got this mess on her hands. I feel like ive said everything i should and I should just let her make the next move. What do you guys think? any tips or advice that would help would be appreciated.