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    whaat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Just talk-text to flirty-text or ask out?

    I met a nice girl at an event. We talked a bit and i noticed she was staying around me almost all the time.

    At last we gave each others FB. Then we just texted via FB and now whatsapp. We talked some regular stuff and a few jokes, but now i'm out of things to text.

    I'm afraid it will get boring/friendzone if i go on like this, but i don't know how to do the transition to teasy/flirty. I red some examples but i really dont know hot to apply this.

    Or should i ask her out right away? I'm sure she would say yes but i just know her for about 5 days.

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    Default Re: Just talk-text to flirty-text or ask out?

    The fact that you ran out of stuff to talk means it was probably a pretty generic/ friend zoneish, boring, conversation. You're problem is that you're afraid of rejection so you're playing it super safe. Safe CAN work, but more times than not you'll get thrown in to the friend zone. You should have got her number during or after the event. You then should have asked her out during the text convo before it got drawn out. Just be cautious of these things in the future and don't be afraid of the no.

    Now that that's out of the way, I would personally suggest ending the texting convo, and then call her in like 2-3 days. Ask her out then. Check out the texting guides on this forum to learn how to text properly before you hold any more conversations through text. I made a lot of assumptions here so correct me if I'm wrong at all.

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    Default Re: Just talk-text to flirty-text or ask out?

    So I called her and asked if she want to go out with me and she said yes! I asked do do a drink, but she wanted to grab some food as well. Now i'm pretty nervous to fuck it up. It's set for in about 10 days, but now still dont know what to text her.
    I know i should build attraction but it's not in me to come with these random/weird/sexual texts


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