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    icall2000 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Rejection Response Feedback

    Need feedback on how i handled and any next steps:

    Txting and talking to a girl (She's 29, I'm 42) i got number from at crossfit gym a couple weeks back. Went out to dinner once and had a good time although she came across as kind of shy. See her a few days a week at gym and always chat. She always responds to txts but seems to start flaking taking a long time for responses.

    So i send her a note joking about teaching her kickboxing and flat out ask if she's interested in me.

    Her: I don't think i'd have the time or agility for kickboxing. Lol. Interested in dating? I don't think I'm in a position to date with school and all.

    Me: Yes...runner girl (she doesn't run that great)....I've seen your balance...may not be the best idea....And no worries...give me a call when you need a break and want someone to hang with.

    I surmise she's not really interested and trying to be nice...I'll see her a few days a week at gym so i'll just remain friendly, move on. Any other tips on handling rejection?

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    drgnsfire12 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Rejection Response Feedback

    Bad move asking her if she is interested in you ...... you put her on the spot, she panicked, and you got an answer you didn't want ....... if you see her at the gym keep talking to her but pretend you are not interested in a relationship ...... treat her like a buddy and she will come around ....... I do applaud you, I'm 43 and I'm dating a 26 year old ...... Love when we go out and guys in heir 20's stare and are like HOW THE HELL IS HE WITH HER ......If they only knew LOL !!!!!

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    icall2000 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Rejection Response Feedback

    She responded relatively quick with a "will do". And she didn't show up at gym today which was unusual.

    I saw new younger guy at gym yesterday asking her number and i walked up introduced myself & chatted him up for a few mins. Thinking that made me put her on the spot to some degree earlier today. I don't really want to waste my time, and a few other girls there I am starting to talk with. Always been shy and reserved myself and working to get out of that.


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