And by the way, me and my girlfriend do this thing where we invite a target girl over for dinner,
then go out, then we come back.
I am going to focus on the first part.
First off, because my girlfriend is there, she is much more relaxed about coming to my house just after meeting me.
I love cooking, I love being interesting, this is what we do and why. We invite the women over first because she can leave her car there and not worry about drinking or whatever (we end up walking to a club) , because I'm a good cook, because shes adventurous, because she should really smell the carpet, whatever, the real reason, after the bar coming back to our place almost always means sex, and she will already know the place and be comfortable with it.
Now onto the cooking, Community plates are the best, so one plate in the center a napkin in front of you, this gets everyone grabbing together in the center, getting your arms crossed, it makes you open up.
I keep the meals interesting and fun. If i serve spaghetti and champagne with candles, and a faggy love song in the background, I am a douche bag typical guy, if I have nin new ghosts cd (yes, do get this for ambience, also the fight club sound track is good.), a cool light effect ( I use the bubble thing, its like tiny bubbles flowing to the top and a light in it), and a very open, very clean, room, she can relax and have fun.
This is my menu for this weekend:
Cucumber with Cream Community
Fried Green Beans Community
Garlic suace Community
Lobster/pita (small peices) Community
Fried Pickles Community
Apple slices (peel, torched with cinnamon) Community
it might sound like a lot, but I serve very small portions, if you fill her up, shes going to feel uncomfortable, a filling fatty meal will ruin everything for you. As far as the date, I don't want to give up everything at once.