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    Question Gaming a hb9, need help

    So just the other day i started texting this girl that is in two of my classes in highschool, (shes a HB9 and she is in a A.P. class O.O)
    i have hung out with her twice over lunch and because of that people started cockblockng me and shit or were just plain old suprised ( i was a total AFC back in junior high) and i finally remembered (i forgot not because i didnt have the balls) to ask her for her number one day and she gave it to me, i must have entered in the number in wrong cus i texted someone else, then i talked to her again and corrected my contact (the number was only one number off so i know it was my fault not her giving a different one on purpose)
    but after that i started gaming her on the phone (still talked to her in person but dont really have much chance to.) and this was my conversation
    Me: Heyy did i get the right number now?
    HB: Yep
    me: Alright! How was your day! (wasnt checking my phone so i replied after 50min)
    hb: good, you? (she replied in 3 min but i was getting worried cus of the single word texts)
    me:It was great! what other classes do you have other than inn tech and science? (i replied immediately to reward her with doing the same thing)
    hbafter 20 min) Cos ^^ and social (cos is cosmetology which is a makeup class for girls, and what is ^^?)
    me:Nice! what are you learning in social?
    her: Well today we watched a movie on natives being taken to residential schools cause we had a sub! Haha
    her: sorry i gtg for soccer! ttyl (i was worried and relieved at the same time, she gave me 2 for one (althrough i didnt reply after that) and idk why all of a sudden she gave such a long text as compared to the other ones

    and after 2 days later i tried to start up another conversation but she never replied back, i think thats to punish me for not replying or soemthing i dont know

    and in another 3 days (today) i started texting her again
    me 12:23pm: Do you have a job?
    hb 12:31pm: nope (again?!?!?!? really with the one words!?!??!?!)
    me 12:45pm: I hate having a job :/ but if i dont get one ill be soooooo broke Haha (just like you )
    ^(that last set of bracets was acctually in the text, i texted that as a inside joke hoping she would remember)
    but she hasnt replied yet and its been a while, im not worried but im about to start my shift. ill reply to this thread after im done with my thread and tell you or not if shes replied or not, in the meant time can you please give me some tips or more questions?
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    It wasn't a bad text. You need to work on your outcomes. Don't text a girl hoping to get an outcome. I mean you just met her so that may be the reason she gives you one word texts. The other advice I have for you is qualifying yourself to her ( i.e kissing up to her trying to get on her good side, like what you did with the job response.) Tbh I bet she didn't care if you liked having a job or not. So don't think you're always going to get the answer/ your way when you talk to women and don't qualify yourself to her for validation. Lastly she could have been busy or whatever, don't think she didn't text back to punish you.
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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    I got a few things, your jumping from one conversation to the next, find a topic and talk about it.

    Basic conversation consists of you asking her a initial question, her statement answer, you state your opinion, and blah blah until the topic is exhausted in which case you move onto the next topic. Look up "Hooks" and "Conversational Hooks" for more info.

    Also all your questions can be answered in simple yes and no. Ask something that provokes thought and requires atleast a full sentence. If you get a crap reply, dont go beg for her attention by replying with a paragraph (needy looking).

    Example:

    If you could pick your ideal travel route, anywhere in the world, with the condition you have to haul a pet monkey around, what would it be? (Two topics to go off of here, traveling and monkeys [pets].)

    Good reply: "hahahah well I would go....blah blah"
    Bad reply: "Europe lol"

    Your response: Good
    Good: "You would choose Rome too?? I actually have been there, the Colosseum is.. blah blah"
    Bad: "Europe's a big place" OR "Nice" OR "Oh yeah?"

    These responses force her to
    A. Elaborate on her choice
    B. Change the topic (If she does that, could not be a fan of traveling, but be careful of frame control)

    Your response BAD:
    Her good reply:"Wow I love Europe I think I like I did blah blah blah me me me look how cool I am blah blah im needy as fuck of your approval"

    Her bad reply: "Cool! (insert the "good reply response sentence")"
    OR
    Something that makes you look like your carrying the conversation (not in control of it), makes you look needy, AFC, or that your desperately trying to keep conversation in hopes of getting into her pants

    If you get crap responses over text, more rapport is gonna have to be built in person (WHILE NOT BEING CLINGY AND FOLLOWING HER AROUND LIKE A LITTLE LOST PATHETIC PUPPY)


    Hope that helps ya

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Alright. Thanks man. Doing stuff in person is truly easy shit for me, honestly I think (don't know for sure) that she has seen me game other girls too, so that might help with the being too needy image. And she still hasn't replied so ya so should I maybe go cold on texting for a week or two? But still being playful in real life?
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    So just the other day i started texting this girl that is in two of my classes in highschool, (shes a HB9 and she is in a A.P. class O.O)
    i have hung out with her twice over lunch and because of that people started cockblockng me and sh1t or were just plain old suprised ( i was a total AFC back in junior high) and i finally remembered (i forgot not because i didnt have the balls) to ask her for her number one day and she gave it to me, i must have entered in the number in wrong cus i texted someone else, then i talked to her again and corrected my contact (the number was only one number off so i know it was my fault not her giving a different one on purpose)
    but after that i started gaming her on the phone (still talked to her in person but dont really have much chance to.) and this was my conversation
    Me: Heyy did i get the right number now?
    HB: Yep
    me: Alright! How was your day! (wasnt checking my phone so i replied after 50min)
    hb: good, you? (she replied in 3 min but i was getting worried cus of the single word texts)
    me:It was great! what other classes do you have other than inn tech and science? (i replied immediately to reward her with doing the same thing)
    hbafter 20 min) Cos ^^ and social (cos is cosmetology which is a makeup class for girls, and what is ^^?)
    me:Nice! what are you learning in social?
    her: Well today we watched a movie on natives being taken to residential schools cause we had a sub! Haha
    her: sorry i gtg for soccer! ttyl (i was worried and relieved at the same time, she gave me 2 for one (althrough i didnt reply after that) and idk why all of a sudden she gave such a long text as compared to the other ones

    and after 2 days later i tried to start up another conversation but she never replied back, i think thats to punish me for not replying or soemthing i dont know

    and in another 3 days (today) i started texting her again
    me 12:23pm: Do you have a job?
    hb 12:31pm: nope (again?!?!?!? really with the one words!?!??!?!)
    me 12:45pm: I hate having a job :/ but if i dont get one ill be soooooo broke Haha (just like you )
    ^(that last set of bracets was acctually in the text, i texted that as a inside joke hoping she would remember)
    but she hasnt replied yet and its been a while, im not worried but im about to start my shift. ill reply to this thread after im done with my thread and tell you or not if shes replied or not, in the meant time can you please give me some tips or more questions?

    Click on the link at the top of your screen that says "register" and you get this message. WARNING: You Must Be Over 18 Years Old To Join PUA Forum.By entering your email below you verify that you are over 18.

    There is hardly anyway all these highschool threads could be 18 yr olds. Obey the forum rules and state your age or get banned. We don't need highschool threads on here per the forum rules. Mods? OP you are clogging up the forums with people over 18 who have real things to talk about you know like real women little boy stop gaming the system and wait till you are of age and out of high school to start gaming girls, such a disgrace.
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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    ^Thats harsh, he's looking for help to improve himself with woman: most of us are in the same boat. Instead of calling mommy mod why don't you give him a hand.

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Sleath5 View Post
    ^Thats harsh, he's looking for help to improve himself with woman: most of us are in the same boat. Instead of calling mommy mod why don't you give him a hand.

    Kids these days have no respect. They pirate music, movies, and games. They break the rules and buy Call of Duty for Mature 17yr old audiences only when they are 14 and 15, they come on here while still in Highschool with no knowledge of what they are talking about and start talking about girls confusing themselves and others. And the rebel (BIGT) who posted in the reply section showed his lack of understanding and is still not understanding after you guys spent all that time explaining it to him, he still doesn't get it. Cheaters never prosper, respect your elders, and follow the rules for goodness sakes let's have some chivalry here. What would your Mom think if you were teaching minors to have sex with women while they were still in HighSchool? Exactly. Have some respect for the Parents man and nothing on you Stealth5 because you are likely of age and not an insurgent but don't defend the rebel or you might defend his trivial cause and thus an uprising of other rebels will get away with their Highschool threads on here and think it is okay to take advantage of the system. Those rules are there for a reason, call it tough love on my part but gee wilikers these minors need to grow up and talk to their Parents about stuff while they are still under age for crying out loud.
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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Hey. I know they are rules. And I'm here to make my point.
    1. I at least have the decency to admit that I am not over 18. I have lied before but if I lied I would feel bad.
    2.all the stuff I have asked here are what you adults have also asked. The little stuff I can find out my self.
    3. You say I'm too young to understand these stuff and I need to focus on my learning. I am in a A.P. class and I plan to keep it that way through out high school.
    4. You say that people are teaching me to have sex. You can go through everything I have posted or asked. I have nothing against teenage sex between other people but I have made a oath not to do it until I graduate.
    5. I only came here to learn about how to deal with girls (the shit I learned here help me get 3 jobs already.), if you seen what I was like before this you wouldn't say this either. I've change for the better. And this website has to do with 50% of it.
    6. I also listen to my parents. My parents said I'm not allowed to date. And I have to be home by 9. I will oblige that I have not once went near to not listing them.
    7.I have been on this forum for 10 month. If I have asked or said anything that might be slightly immature or outside what I need to know, I think I would have already been banned.
    8.I'm pretty sure mods would be okay for me to be here. Marvilo would have probably not replied to this section or get me banned.
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Alright. Thanks man. Doing stuff in person is truly easy sh1t for me, honestly I think (don't know for sure) that she has seen me game other girls too, so that might help with the being too needy image. And she still hasn't replied so ya so should I maybe go cold on texting for a week or two? But still being playful in real life?
    Didn't read all the stuff above, but we'll help you out anyway man. Use this to your advantage than. If it is so easy in person you probably should have already had her to a point where she can't wait to text you. Re-examine your position here, should you be doing more in person?

    If so, start doing it. You spend 8 hours a day in the same school as she is, you should have more than enough time to slide your way in. Outside of school, you can work on your texting a little bit, but it doesn't have to be a game winner for ya. Personally don't enjoy texting at all, prefer to only use it as a means for a meet up or just a small reminder I'm still in to her. Otherwise, I've never seen my text game take me to a new level with a girl, and I'm a better texter than I'll give myself credit for.

    Point being, don't rely on your text game so much. She knows your around, and unless your sexually escalating, it's probably not going to get you far. Start working on it in person, get her to go out with you outside of school, then text her, but only for some naked pics (If she's 18 haha)

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    Default Re: Gaming a hb9, need help

    Haha thanks for the info man, I guess the thing that I am doing wrong in person is the same thing I'm going wrong in texting. Switching to different light topics without building too much rapport (found out that's what I need to work on now). But I also hate texting as well (I prefer calling) but like I said before bout having a oath, naked pics are only gonna get me horny, and I'm pretty sure girls attraction levels will drop, (correct me if I'm wrong.) And I will post a update on what happens tommorow when I get home. But imma search up some stuff on rapport. Thanks by the way
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