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    Default Tips for a first date?

    I met a girl at an event and was given her email by the event hostess. I sent the initial email and she replied that she was out of town for the weekend but she her cell number. I called the next day and left a voice mail message and she called me back shortly thereafter. It turns out that we had some things in common and live relatively close to each other so we were looking to set something up later in the week. I told her that I'd call her in the next few days, once she gets back from the long weekend to put something together.

    Given the different way this has happened, I'm wondering whether dinner is too early for the first official date. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Tips for a first date?

    Something fun, unique, and interesting thats NOT dinner or a movie. You want to give her the impression your different from all the other guys (impression, not "man he's really trying to be different, wtf"). Choose one that plays to your strengths.

    For example, if your bad at prolonged conversation, go to a amusement park and go to the roller coaster and log thing, not the Ferris wheel. If you get along really well and theres plenty of Kino, Tunnel of Love is a perfect way to seal a k-close.

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    Default Re: Tips for a first date?

    ^^ The amusement park is a good one. The possibility's are endless man. Go for a walk in a park. Go to a art gallery/museum. If she likes animals bring her to the humane society and go pet all the dogs and cats (what woman doesn't like puppy's!).

    My go to used to be cold stone (until it closed). I would buy a medium ice cream and we would share it. It goes against advice about not paying for a womans stuff on a date BUT its like 5 bucks and your eating it too (plus YOU should be picking the flavor). So I don't count that. If the date is going well you can sit there longer and talk or go on a walk after the ice cream. If you decide you don't really like the woman or you have other stuff to do your only there for 20-30 minutes. Eat ice cream, talk, K-close at the end.


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