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    Default Lets sleep

    I have been "out of game" for 3 months now. I´ve been working to build LTR.

    This night I got "Lets go to sleep" before I came. Our sex lasted about 2-3 hours so yeah I dont wonder but still I feel like she uses me since I ate her out and made it really pleasurable for her but she cant finish me.

    So I didnt go to sleep, I started to watch tv from bed while sitting and went to shower. After that I said that "you cant just say you go to sleep like that". After that we were quiet for some time and she was starting to cry. She said she feels bad for all the great things I have done for her and she just makes me feel bad.

    EDIT: I said to that: "It doesnt matter, I´m sure you didnt do it on purpose. I just wanted you to know that it bothered me."

    Frankly I dont know what to do. Domination is still my sticking point, in dating too :/
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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    So what do you need help on? You told her the truth and I don't see nothing wrong with that.
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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    Actually, if I were you, I'd be a bit sharper about this.

    The fact that she cried when you said something honest but probably didn't address her "benefits", might show that she doesn't appreciate your efforts in the relationship.

    Honestly, I didn't like your "It doesn't matter..." answer. It does matter, man. There's something called investment equilibrium. You have a right to expect to take from a relationship as much as you give.

    There's something here. She might not be using you now, but this could be the start of things. If you back down when she cries, gets upset or angry, she will use these against you.

    So in short, I'd advise you to take the risk and tell her how you feel and what you expect. But don't just leave it at that. If she tries to throw crap at you, you must hold your ground. Otherwise, you'll never be satisfied with this relationship, not physically nor emotionally.
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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
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    Thanks Wolf for answering you had some decent points there. That´s what I was aiming for I dont want her to use crying or getting angry as a way to make things better. I have usually ignored that kind of behaviour. I should tell her what I except from her and how it would benefit her by doing so. Thanks again Wolf for support
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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    Woah man you just fell for a huge shit test there never go AFC sort of when she cries.
    May get out there and sarge.ltrs often won't improve your game.
    Make sure you get off before she comes on.how? Let her go down first.Resist being the guy who expects receprocation in the bedroom and frames it as an obligation.That may kill attraction on subtle levels.In a nutshell she likes you but may be playing games to win you over by throwing tantrums(crying,stat ing how she appreciates you at that time).etc.

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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    MLTRs are cool, be careful of LTRs. My buddy has a girlfriend. Everytime she cries or pouts, he does the opposite of what she wants. Works really well for him.

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    Default Re: Lets sleep

    It always matters, especially issues relative to you.

    Try leading her through sex. If you're not getting off, then there's a problem on her end. Tell her what feels good and what doesn't, also tell her what you want and when you want it. Otherwise, Helen Keller is going to continue her terrible handies.
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