Quick background, I posted part of this in field report but here's the details. Met HB8 at a party last Friday night down at the Uni I graduated from. Talked and bantered for maybe 3 minutes, tops. I had to leave and she told me to take her number. I told her she could have mine, she'd hit me up if she wanted to talk. She took it and had a quick make out sesh. She text me later that night but logistics were bad and we couldn't meet. I'm heading back down this weekend, but first text her last night to keep her mind on me.
Me: Hey there
Her: Hi (:
Me: Your smiley faces are backwards
Her: Not as backwards as your smiley faces haha
Me: They might be. but only in a mirror so i need some costume ideas for this weekend. i was thinkin either a slutty witch or a slutty nurse. what ya think?
Her: haha as long as it has slutty in it i'm sure it will be a great costume
Me: Haha yeah.. u'd want me to be a little scandalous
Her: where's the fun in being boring
Me: guess i'll jus have to find something that compliments my package than haha
Her: haha that sounds like a good idea
Me: oo u'd like that huh?
Got caught up in the last line. I knew I was at a point where i could look to flirt and build sexual tension or go for comfort; I'm not going to be down there til friday. I'm not too worried about the text itself or the situation, but more of what to do when at that crossroads, I really didn't know what to do. It took me a while to make up my mind, and I haven't heard back all day. As a learning lesson, would the sexual tension push be best i.e. the last text sent, or should you look to build some comfort at that point instead?