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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    How I deal with jealousy?

    I look at the big picture. Jealousy really falls apart when you think on a larger scale. Why would you feel jealous? If the relationship is monogamous then the jealousy must stem from trust issues. If you have trust issues, you need to deal with them immediately and head-on or the relationship is bound to fail anyway. Not taking action or just letting jealousy fester only makes things worse, and makes you the guilty party. If the relationship is open, you have no reason to be jealous. Otherwise you are being dishonest to yourself and to your partner. In fact jealousy is always a symptom of another problem, not the problem itself. If your partner is cheating on you (whatever that may entail from your relationship setup) then you have a right to be jealous, but once again, it isn't the problem. The problem is the cheating, or that your relationship is built on ridiculous standards. Either way, you deal with the root problem, and realize that sometimes honesty hurts. Jealousy isn't hard to figure out how to deal with, but it can be painful.

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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    Definitely, jealousy is a very powerful tool. It can ruin one's thoughts and deter actions. It can also ruin a relationship if not controlled. I once broke up with my gf before because of her over jealousy.

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    When I get jealous, I:
    1. Keep silent all the time.
    2. Disinterest in the things around me, no matter how much fun they are.
    3. When I get jealous because my gf is talking to her ex,I say, " Let's go" even if it is not yet over or we need to go to other places yet.


    Sounds pussy but hey, that's me....

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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    Thanks bill - jealousy has ruined most of my relationships. Ugh.

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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    I try to overcome jealousy by smiling and just acting calm and relaxed. as I want to show this girl that she truly means alot to me but also not show her that I will react in a bad way.

    but I wouldn't mind advise as I do struggle to get into that area sometimes as if I'm away and look on Facebook and she does like another guy to and were fighting over her in a way. but I know I'm a better guy by far and will treat her right. so if any methods please share.

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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    It's my belief that jealousy actually has nothing to do with the other person. Jealousy is something you create in your mind because of your belief that you are low value. You actually fear she can leave at any time which in turn is a self fulfilling prophecy because you inevitably end up pushing them away.

    Jealousy is just your brains little way of saying, "I fear the loss of this person because I don't think I can do better." When in all reality you've stopped viewing the relationship as win-win and your abundance Mindset has left you.

    In conclusion, if you're jealous just remind yourself to stop being a chode. Lol.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

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    Default Re: How To Overcome Jealousy

    Lol 'chode' funniest word ever

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