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    Default How to proceed after strange first date.

    So I met a Blonde HB9 recently out with friends. We met through a mutual group of friends and had been seeing each other about once a week for a month before I asked her to go out on a date....

    I picked her up and we went to downtown Atlanta to a low key pizza joint and walked over to my favorite low key dive bar. Using Kino through your the night with mild touching trying to get her more and more comfortable. I also successfully did some negging. I was getting mixed vibes because I was getting IOIs as well as IODs although verbally she seemed in to the night.

    After leaving the bar I figured I might as well just go in for the kill so I went in for the kill with more aggressive touching and eventually kissing when I dropped her off. After the date I got a thanks for picking me up and the fun night text, ok cool... But here's the confusing part.

    I'm going with a group of friends to a local sporting event this weekend and she basically invited herself to come, which was fine so we made plans. Then this afternoon I get a text "soooo don't hate me but I forgot I had plans to go to a different sporting event the same day :-("

    I just responded that sounds fun let's do something else soon, but have yet to get a response. Surely it's not too late to pick this back up, how do we proceed boys?

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    Default Re: How to proceed after strange first date.

    Quote Originally Posted by Brojaysimps View Post
    So I met a Blonde HB9 recently out with friends. We met through a mutual group of friends and had been seeing each other about once a week for a month before I asked her to go out on a date....

    I picked her up and we went to downtown Atlanta to a low key pizza joint and walked over to my favorite low key dive bar. Using kino through your the night with mild touching trying to get her more and more comfortable. I also successfully did some negging. I was getting mixed vibes because I was getting IOIs as well as IODs although verbally she seemed in to the night.

    After leaving the bar I figured I might as well just go in for the kill so I went in for the kill with more aggressive touching and eventually kissing when I dropped her off. After the date I got a thanks for picking me up and the fun night text, ok cool... But here's the confusing part.

    I'm going with a group of friends to a local sporting event this weekend and she basically invited herself to come, which was fine so we made plans. Then this afternoon I get a text "soooo don't hate me but I forgot I had plans to go to a different sporting event the same day :-("

    I just responded that sounds fun let's do something else soon, but have yet to get a response. Surely it's not too late to pick this back up, how do we proceed boys?
    My guess is she actually had something come up. I would have responded with either "k" or "ok" to her text. Respond, but nothing significant. Too long a response will come off as needy.

    Wait til the day after the event and text "How was [whatever the event was] ?" one or two Fluff texts, then set a new meet up.

    Sounds like you are doing great!

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    Default Re: How to proceed after strange first date.

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    My guess is she actually had something come up. I would have responded with either "k" or "ok" to her text. Respond, but nothing significant. Too long a response will come off as needy.

    Wait til the day after the event and text "How was [whatever the event was] ?" one or two Fluff texts, then set a new meet up.

    Sounds like you are doing great!

    Agree with the "ok" part. For the "how was", why not "mine was great".

    Other version instead: "Great, I can't go either and I'd let you know"...

    Only thinking about...

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    Default Re: How to proceed after strange first date.

    Sounds legit. Personally, I wouldn't have mentioned meeting again right away. Something like, hah! way to keep track of where you invite yourself to " would have been a nice jab.

    I would have responded with either "k" or "ok" to her text.
    I have to disagree with you on this on, cd. To us, "k" is a quick response that tells the other person we got their text and understand what they're saying to us. To women... it's rude. A girl once told me that it pisses her off. Now, she could be crazy (like the rest of them) but I see her point.
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