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View Poll Results: does he like me? should i slip him my #?

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  • yes, give him ur #

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  • yes, but DONT give him your #

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  • Just ask him

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  • no he does NOT like you

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    Exclamation Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    So i meet this cute guy at work,btw i work at Subway restaurant, been there for about 2 months. he always comes in once a week (tuesday) and i asked him out of curiosity, "y u always come on this day" and he says "well, im pretty busy, besides, i only come here, because you're here", so my smartself says "yeah, i kinda figured"... so fast foward couple days later, i see him on an unusual day, so i said "hmm.. its not ur day to visit" then he says, "well, i figured u were working today", so i said "are you stalking me?" In a flity way, then he says "haha that would be funny" and idk if it was a "serious" response... but he was kinda giggly..Now i like him he is quiet, and looks like a good and smart man. Anyways, yesterday or last tuesday i did my eyebrows, my makeup, my hair, i was looking a 10. But he never showed up... i was sad, but idk his name even.. we just randomly talk. But i dont want to talk too much. Someone told me to give him my number on a napkin or something.. but idk, lol. so i dont know what to think about this. What do u think he meant?.. btw, im latin, 26 he is white late 20's early 30's. Please help me decode this. My co workers say that before i started working there he was always quiet, never talked more than necessary, but with me, he always looks at me, and smiles, and is overall more social around me. Thanks!
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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    He desires you, and may feel attracted to you.may keep playing your role

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    Ty.. so just keep on flirting? Lol
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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    Passive may be best.claimed arrived just to see you.was available more than once.must be emotionally invested.other went direct and risked coming off too strong

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    Well, hard to give an opinion. He knows you're latin and he's white and is aware of any age differences, so that's not a point.

    I think you must wait for his next visit and see any developments.

    I wouldn't tell you to give him your phone number that way.

    I'll keep watching you ;=) cute.

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    It sounds like he certainly likes you in some form. I wouldn't suggest giving your phone number that way. If he's quiet then that move could backfire. You're in a perfect position right now; you get to talk to him on a regular basis. What you should do instead is try to direct conversation towards a date. Do you know what he likes, or does as a hobby? Does he like movies, rock-climbing, etc.? If you don't know, try and find this out first by asking if he's "doing anything fun at the weekend?" which is a great lead-on for asking/winning a date...

    him: "Well I'm going ATV riding Saturday"
    you: "What! That sounds awesome! I'd love to, what time? Also do you want cheese?"
    him: "Haha, yes to cheese but no girls allowed unfortunately."
    you: "Aww *pout*"
    him: "How about you, are you up to anything fun?"
    you: "Well I want to see that new Captain Phillips movie on Sunday but I think my friends might not be able to make it, so it looks like I'll be going out to sea alone."
    him: "Ooh, I'll escort you if you want. I wanna see it too."
    you: "Hmm... No boys allowed? Haha. You may have a little extra lettuce though."
    him: *pouty face*
    you: "Welllll.... I guess I would consider letting you escort me. Text me when and where to meet, here's my phone number on this handy bit of napkin. That'll also be $9 please."

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    I'm really interested in helping you. Your story looks very romantic and I'm sure he'll show up again soon.

    I'm imagining your scene in a movie and I'll try to have enough inspiration to make up a dialogue.

    By now I think it starts with him asking you how you are (after you ask him just to make sure he'll ask you). You simply say fine thanks with a smile.

    Then he ask for his menu or something and at the end you say "actually not everything is fine with me. I'm desperate with something" and you leave immediately...

    I'll finish it soon...

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    Every able body man for himself! I love guys like him. They give guys like me ample amount of time to find girls like you and sweep them off their feet. But this isn't about me.

    I love it when a woman comes up to me and has enough confidence to strike up a conversation. I'm a strong believer in going after what you want. If he's not taking the first step, then by all means you take it. Not every guy believes it's ok to walk into a place, chat up a beautiful woman, and then go for her number (crazy right!?).

    Just understand that when putting yourself out there, you run the risk of rejection which is COMPLETELY NORMAL. Most women I know don't handle rejection to well so they don't put themselves out there that much. So if you're one of them, what do I suggest? Grow a farking pair of balls and go after what you want

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    He likes you.

    You put him on the spot several times by asking if he was flirting with you and stalking you, which could make him feel uncomfortable and more nervous about asking you out. I'm a firm believer in following through immediately. You never know when circumstances will change and he gets a girlfriend or finds a new restaurant. It's important to get some form of contact. Phone number preferred and facebook is a distant second.

    If he doesn't initiate, you need to. If I could physically be there and see the interaction, my advice would be different, but here's generic feedback: Say, "Hey me and my friends are having a party sometime next week. It would be fun to see you there." Then, he'll respond. It's important to not specify which day of the week it's going to be because if you say a day he's legitimately busy, you may not get his number due to scheduling conflict and not know whether or not he actually likes or does not like you.

    If he says "no." Say "Cool, well you seem fun. Are you on facebook?" Anyone will friend you on Facebook. For a guy not to collect a girl's number when she's offering it, he's very dense.

    Also, you don't need to actually have a party, but it's an easy close to get the number, then just say the party was happening a different day.

    The best thing to do when he agrees to the party or hanging out some other time is saying "Great! My phone is in the back. Shoot me a text right now, so I have your number." That way, you know for sure he messaged you, and it has him start investing in the interaction.

    Good luck! Did that help ?

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    Default Re: Does My Guy customer like me? or are my coworkers crazy?

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    He likes you.
    I agree - He likes you. Do what you can to help him out in making a meetup happen outside of work. You want to be careful to not help him too much. He needs to makes some of the moves and invest in you. If he can't make the moves now, then he wont make the moves when it comes to sex.


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