I have met one girl (let's call her girl A) through an acquaintance of my parents, which I really like. The problem is that she came to me for job advice as she is currently unemployed. During the first meeting, I just kept it at a friendly level. However, after digging a bit further, turns out we are exactly the same age and she's totally my type AND single. We met for coffee one week after our initial meeting. Things went ok but there was no flirtation either. I did manage to build some comfort with the cube routine, but I really want to take things further than that. She likes going to the cinema, so I promised her I will take her to this cool movie that few people know about. We are actually supposed to go watch it this week. I really intend to escalate things, but I am bit worried that this girl is simply not interested and that she hangs out with me for networking purposes. Sure, we have of common interests and identical views about life, but the spark is still missing. I wonder if this is a lost cause... but it's worth the try in any case.
Now, I have been gaming some other girl (let's call her girl B) way before I actually met girl A. Things are going well and she has shown IOIs several times. We even agreed to have a movie night at my place this week as well. The way things are going, we will most probably end up in the bedroom (unless I don't make any move at all).
To be honest, I like girl A much more than girl B (actually I totally dig girl A), but I feel like that I have to make up my mind asap as the dates are coming up very soon.
1) I don't even know where I stand with girl A and things may never evolve. I might be wasting my time in the end.
2) Girl B is almost a given and it is up to me to take things further. However, if things drag on too much, I will lose her interest
So, I need to make a choice or I may end up losing both chicks. Additionally, I don't feel like being a player and dating 2 girls at the same time, so this option is out of the question.
I really need some objective advice on this as I am totally stuck.
What do you guys think? What would you do?
Thanks in advance, mate!