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Thread: Tinder - Lost her, recovered, but lost her again.

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    Default Tinder - Lost her, recovered, but lost her again.

    Chatting with HB9 on Tinder..Her age 37, I'm 42..., I say "Hey you..." initially. She responds back 4 days later and I start the standard Q&A, she quickly gets bored. I've found most girls in the older age range respond positive to the standard stuff first to avoid txting for days and no compatibility but this girl didn't want any of that.

    After a few txts
    Me: Career?
    Her: Yep...going to bed..I do sleep studies for a living...about to start first trial...gots to go...

    Me: Ha! Would've pinned you for a sales/account manager...sweet dreams....
    Her: OK...Busted...Thats exactly what i am...just got bored with the bs...I like to chat about microcosms and not run of the mill bulksht.

    Me: Are you a colorful knee sock wearing girl
    Her: Yup, have i met you?
    Her: Am i that easy to read?

    Me: I was the customer svc rep that you complained to about last order
    Her: BS
    Her: I don't order or have mixups

    Me: Crossfit ?
    Her: Ick
    Me: Not your thing...do more than save the Tata's runs? (she had pictures of her doing a pink run and is in good shape-she described herself earlier as athletic with T&A)
    Her: night night (it was past midnight, but think i lost her interest)

    I didn't respond...Any ideas on next steps, she's very quick witted, feel i need to throw her off and take in a different direction to keep her attention when starting another conversation. I looked up her FB after, and found some basic info, looks like she was with same guy for years, got married but then divorced after a couple months recently, plays a lot of tennis, very social....has hot friends.

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    Default Re: Tinder - Lost her, recovered, but lost her again.

    Meet up with her. The whole point of these sites is to take it offline ASAP. I have about 4 texts back and forth, all incredibly light, then get her number, then a few more texts and go on a date. I know virtually nothing about these women before meeting them in person, aside from what they look like, and that's really the way it should be. You can't create real connection online.

    Specifically, never make fun of a charity thing like save the tata's. Likely she did the run because she knows someone that was diagnosed with breast cancer, so making fun of it makes you seem insensitive.

    Next day, I'd text. "How are you ?"
    Then "Haha nice! What's your schedule like this week ?"
    Then "Cool let's grab a drink [insert time that fits schedule] ?"
    Then "Great Tinder crashes sometimes - what's your number ?"

    Does that help?

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    Default Re: Tinder - Lost her, recovered, but lost her again.

    ya be sensitive to what she really cares about.


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