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    Default Odd Occurance

    Hi!

    So I'm new to the forums but definitely a son of the PUA game. An odd thing happened to me when texting this girl.

    Super Brief Backdrop: I've seen her a few times and we've been texting back and forth, either I initiate or she does and it can go on well into the night unless I put an end to it. Convos are great, we're coworkers, and we click when I've seen her in person and over text.

    So here's where it got weird. A few days ago her and I were texting and it was fun I was teasing her she was teasing me, normal stuff. I asked her a question (something about music) and all of a sudden radio silence.

    A day goes by,

    Another and I send this:

    J =) I'm only sending you this because your phones funky, if you responded it didn't come through to me. Other options include you being a busy bee, you were kidnapped, or developed a sudden urge to travel and left the country in pursuit of treasure and fortune. The possibilities are endless I'm afraid I'll have to publish them as a series, I'll title it "text message adventure"

    and she res:
    Hello there, alas, I was I was on such an adventure..indeed I'm just quite the busy bee these days. With the added plus of a funky phone among other things. Just going through something atm.

    I respond:
    “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” So keep your head up and pull a Hermoine Granger (She's a HP fan)

    She Res: Thank you =) I just have some decisions I have to make.
    I re: Always here if you need someone to talk to.

    Silence for 4 days

    Then yesterday she opens with a business related q. I answer it shortly. I don't make conversation. She then tries to make convo asking my opinion on things, I didn't respond and haven't since. I'm a bit confused at this point. The above was weird and I don't want to come off as a friend whom she has complete control over. It kinda upset me that I was the one left hanging. Thoughts on this? (Albeit Lengthy =P)

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    Default Re: Odd Occurance

    I'm not too sure what you're after. You want to sleep with her, date her? Just see where it goes? How I would play it would depend on that but from what I read so far:

    Theres no way to know what kind of issues she has going on unless you ask her. She messaged you, albeit about something professionally, but still something. I would continue to respond in a very funny, sociable way. Keep flirting just enough to make her wonder but no more. Then I'd just make her work alittle more.

    She was playing along with the txt you sent so that's a good sign. If she keeps sustaining the conversation, laughs at the jokes you make and plays along with them, and is still sending you messages I would probably continue on like nothing happened. If she's not talking to you much you can always give it a week and then make light funny conversation and see what was going on with her.

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    Default Re: Odd Occurance

    Pinter man, thank you for the response. I'm in the "Just see where it goes" moment, she's not the only option I have, but I do find her interesting. So don't worry about her not answering my question and disappearing? Oh and yes and yes to that. I definitely want to make her work a little more.

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    Default Re: Odd Occurance

    You guys have flirted a bit.u may push escalation.


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