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    Default Facebook While Deployed?

    Ok so it's basically how it sounds. I'm deployed to Afghanistan for 9 months (have about 6 months left). So recently this HB8 (looks a lot like Mandy Moore lol) I knew in college reappears on facebook. We made some minor chit chat but nothing much. So I'm just wondering if there's any long term techniques for chatting on facebook without ending up in the friend zone by the time I get back stateside. Of course I'm not concentrated solely on this girl, so any advice for chatting while deployed will be appreciated lol. Thanks

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    Default Re: Facebook While Deployed?

    Tiptoe lightly, keep yourself engaging enough to keep her interest, but less is more the further you dig into comfort and rapport without escalation in person the further and harder you have to dig back out of the LJBF zone.

    Keep attention but don't try to make ground until you are back state side.
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    Default Re: Facebook While Deployed?

    This is a hard one just because you don't want to invest too much, but at the same time, you don't want to be random when you guys interact. The bright side to this is that you know her from school, so you guys already have a positive background.

    I would ask her to meet up for coffee or somewhere low key for an hour or so. That's it, just catch up, be interesting, but don't invest. That should spark something. After that I would just keep in touch and maybe hang out a few more times. 6 months is going to come quickly, as I'm sure you know. So while it seems like a lot of time, it really isn't and you have tedious work to do.
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    Default Re: Facebook While Deployed?

    Make use of the fact you cannot post operationally relevant information on there. You are likely to be one of the most interesting guys she ever gets to speak to, and you also have the added air of mystery.

    It will be pretty easy (likely) to get her building romantic fantasises about you, which means she will be primed and excited to meet you on your return.
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    Default Re: Facebook While Deployed?

    I'm stationed out in Japan right now so I run a lot of my game through social media. I suggest just running game like normal. It is my philosophy that guys only get friendzoned when they do not make their intentions clear, so thus are not recognized as a sexual suitor. I'd wager that as long as you build sexual Tension (through innuendo/conversation) and make it clear you arent looking for a friend you should be fine.

    Id also like to add that if she mentions anything that may imply you are friendzoned or she sees you as a friend, perhaps you could run a more suttle and modified version of the Zebra Boyfriend Destroyer. "I cant be your friend, accepting that is like settling for second best, and im not a second best type of guy, etc" I'd reccomend reading it and tailoring it to your needs should the situation call for it, however its not an easy routine to use.

    Also, if shes giving you one word answers, freeze her out for a few days dont try to push the conversation if it isn't moving. it will make you seem needy.

    PM me if you have other questions I've been at it for a while and know a few other PUA's out here that do this all the time.
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