I'm wondering if this happens to anyone else. I'm going on quite a few dates on POF and I seem to be stumbling on all the sport daters as most of them don't answer my texts at all after the 1st date. Others will maybe answer one or two but will eventually fade into darkness.
Here's my date guidelines and I'm moving within those pretty much every time
-Getting to know each other, I tell my story and hear theirs
-Going for the kiss close to 1 hour in the date. This usually varies with the girls reaction. I'm always moving slowly as if she's winning me over and I'm very smooth at choosing my first kiss moment. I've almost never been denied the kiss
-I look to find out about her and make her invest, have her talk a lot about herself and connect
-I have a good sense of humour which I'm obviously squeezing fully at every date. Every girl laughs and giggles all night at my dates.
Yet as much as I'm led to believe that these are the components for a great 1st date I can't get a 2nd one to save my life. Some of them agree on the first date that they want to come to mine next time to try my cooking skills full of enthusiasm and eagerness. How much they love my sense of humour and that they find me really good looking are compliments I'm happy to hear quite often. But when afterwards texting comes into play, boom! Flake!
I have a good profile of both pics and about me sections. Suffice it to say it's good since I'm pulling a lot and it's quite congruent with my personality. I thought online dating would be more relationship oriented. Does this happen to you guys as well and does anyone have any advice as I'm really tired. I'm thinking I'm probably doing something wrong as I've met so many pretty girls for all of them to disappear and I'm so frustrated and I have lost patience