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    Default Re: Bad or Dead End Text

    Stop trying to game her over the phone and try to get her in person. Text messages are so tricky that I try to avoid them except to set up dates and deal with logistics. Next thread you send you have to go for a meetup.

    My general pattern is one short text conversation that ends on my terms (3-4 texts max). Then I send a message a day or two later, wait for the response, and then set a meetup.
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    Default Re: Bad or Dead End Text

    She's making it difficult.

    I started a new thread yesterday. As usual she responds immediately. Went for the meet up. She said Yes. I gave her the option of coffee or wine and haven't heard back since. I've noticed a pattern. She doesn't seem to respond after 9:30pm and doesn't seem to continue the thread the next day.

    Now before somebody comments about me giving her a choice I want to point something out. I'm from Canada and daygame is very unexpected here, therefore the issue of safety is on there minds. So I've just started to give them the option of coffee or wine, then I tell them when and where.

    At this point I'm ready to burn the number. I'm giving it 2 days with no contact from me. At that point I'll call or text and go for the meet up one last time.

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    Default Re: Bad or Dead End Text

    That's a bullshit excuse for giving her the option. day game is no more unexpected in Canada than in the US (and I know because I am also Canadian).

    I typically set a date and time with women, but don't tell them where we're going until like the day before (unless logistics require otherwise). Don't make excuses and don't be beta.
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    Default Re: Bad or Dead End Text

    I wish that were true Duke. I've gone back and looked at my notes an all my daygame dates that worked out were coffee, 99% of the going for drinks flaked or ceased contact at that point. I've also asked woman that I'm not interested in if they would feel in danger from a daygame date in the evening and most said yes.

    I don't know how your pulling off not even telling them where your going till the day prior. Are you getting away with this in Canada or are you living in the US?

    I don't want to disagree, no do I like coffee dates. I'm just trying to find out what works best.


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