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    Default need help text gaming a flaky HB

    hey guys, so i number closed this HB in my art class last week. we really hit it off and she was giving me lots of ioi's, playing with her hair while talking to me, looking at me then turning away when i look at her, laughing at all my jokes , she even sat right next to me when we started a new painting. got her number then texted her 2 days later a little Fluff talk, then ejected from the convo. next day i gave her the cube test. she was totally shocked and amazed. the next time i saw her in class we made plans to go to an art gallery for a class assignment. we initially where supposed to go Thursday but it was raining and she said she doesn't like to go out in tht weather. i bagged on her for being scared of water but still tried to talk her into going, but she resisted and i said it was cool. we made plans again to go friday (yesterday), but she flaked again. so now i need help on how i should move forward i was going to freeze her out till monday or Tuesday but like i said not sure if that's the right move, any suggestions? im gunna add our text conversation so you guys can tell me what im doing right and what im doing wrong and give me some constructive feed back.

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    Was it raining on Friday as well?? If not what was her excuse for flaking?

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    it wasnt raining friday, her excuse was that she had to take a drug test for a job she was applying for.

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    Just freeze her out until your next class. That's fine because you both know you're going to see her then. When you're in class tease her a bit about it and then move on.

    She may try to set up another date with you. If that's the case, agree to a date, but whatever date she suggests doesn't "work for you" and you can give her a date and activity that does.

    If she doesn't try to set up a date, just run some game and see where she's at. If she's showing lots of IOIs and qualifying herself, then try to set up a date with her, or instadate with her after class.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    got it,thanks for the help Duke. if she dosn't try to set up another date is there any routine i could use to gauge where shes at?

    also what if she texts me back before i see her in class again? how would i proceed forward?

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    If you're trying to set up another date, the key is to get her qualifying herself to you. So just run normal game with her. Tease her about being flaky (calling out behaviors is always good). For instance:

    You: "You're so flaky" *delivered with playful grin*
    Her: "No I'm not! I was really -busy -sick -etc."

    Once you have her qualifying herself again, then you can move for an actual date. I'd try to do something with her right after class because she can't flake on you in that situation.

    If she texts you before then, just run normal game on her and wait to do anything until class. Don't reward her flakes. If she tries to reschedule via text, do the same thing as I said to do if she tries to reschedule in class.
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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    yeah i tried to get an insta-date the day i started talking to her, before i got her number, but she has another class right after our painting class so i just # closed.

    i was thinking of nicknaming her snowflake, for flaking on me but idk seems kinda corny, wat do you think? cheesy or not? any suggestions for a nickname?

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    Don't worry about a nickname. You can name her snowflake if you want and tell her why. Be like, "I'm gonna call you snowflake because your so flaky." That's fine. Corny is fine. More importantly, focus on the dynamics. People get so caught up in the technical aspects of this that they fail to see the big picture. She's a person, she doesn't have a play book, so just go in and see how she reacts.

    I've given you a roadmap of how to approach this situation. Your job now is to follow it and react to the situation as it unfolds. Don't start failing to see the forest for all the trees.
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    thanks alot man, i appreciate all the help. i'll try to follow the roadmap to the T. i'll post how it all went one way or another on thursday.

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    Default Re: need help text gaming a flaky HB

    Ok so this is my update for today...

    when she got to class she walked to me and gave me a hug and asked if i ended up going to the art gally. i told her i didn't and that i ended up meeting up with another friend and going to a smoking session. she offered me a fist bump, she smokes too, and i accepted it. she told me that she ended up going to the gally with her mom and me like a fool didn't bring up another plan to hangout. anyways the class went on and i tried to build comfort and attraction. i asked her how her weekend was, she told me it was boring, i laughed at her and made fun of how boring she is. then i told her what i did, went to a party with some friends (trying to build social proof and show that i had fun despite her canceling on me). i also noticed the music she listened to, lmao it was ja rule, i made fun her listening to ja rule and asked her about the music she likes, and why she likes it etc (would that be considered qualifying herself?) and we also noticed we share a similar taste in music. lastly i asked if she wore contacts, she said she doesn't, and i told her that she has really nice eyes (while making direct eye contact) she smiled at me and said thank you. at the end of class i gave her a hug (lingered a sec or two longer then normal and told her i'd hit her up later). as i was leaving she told he to send her a link to my friends music page, so she knows ill be texting her later.

    ok the end so far.... what should my next move be? i know i f'ed up not bring up chilling another time but is there a way to recover? if i did something wrong what was it? any pointers, tips and advice would be awesome.


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