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    urbancowboy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl keep Dodging my questions?

    Trying to quote multiple posts on mobile is a pain in the ass so in response to your first post...
    Why the f@ck would you ask to see her again? This may come off a little harsh but I'm genuinely...maybe not confused per se, but I just don't know. Making tenative plans if it comes up in conversation in person is one thing, asking over text RIGHT AFTER hanging out is another entirely. And I mean that in a bad way. You might be thinking, it seems nice, what's so bad about it?

    *It implies that you didn't think you were already going to see each other again, which shows a lack of confidence.

    *It's farking needy. Even after I have sex with a girl the first time, I text her like normal (Hey boo ) like a few hours later and then say early on in the conversation "Just wanted to tell you I had a great time last night. *some kind of compliment here about her appearance...I've heard you should compliment her sexual technique too but I have yet to find a way to integrate this smoothly and keep it from backfiring and sounding pervy*.

    Quote Originally Posted by asvp View Post
    Say i have not said anything to her for a week or so - And she has not initiated any form of contact, safe to assume not interested

    or should i try to re initiate.

    i feel like it should go both ways, im usually the first to say something, if someone is intrested they would try to say whats up , ya think?
    I'm going to deviate a little here from accepted theory and say you should be the one texting the girl first in the situations you're finding yourself in now. Don't text everyday, but every other day. If you're doing this, it communicates massive confidence and makes her think you're just the kind of cool, in command man she wants to...insert your own dirty metaphor here, I just can't hahaha. When a girl wants to hang out, she will let you know. Once you start seeing those signs, IT'S ON.
    NOTE: It is not always true that you should be the one texting her first. That's very dependent on the relationship, the stage you're at in that relationship and the value you two place on each other. But for now, as a rule, that's how it should be. And remember, all the rules of PUA are really mroe like guidelies. Confusing, I know.

    To directly answer your question...send her something similar to this text and then take my tips from above and start applying them IF she responds to this first text. If not, re-visit your relationship with her and consider the circumstances once you've been with a few other girls...OK, here's what you say "Hey, I've been crazy busy with (school, work, whatever the f@ck it is you do) and I haven't had a chance to talk to you lately! What are you up to?" DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT apologize. So many people apologize out of habit because they were taught to be non-confrontational in middle school, which is a way of avoiding liability for bullying lawsuits but has emotionally cripped an entire generation of young adults. Save apologies for whe they're merited! Urbancowboy out!

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    Default Re: Girl keep Dodging my questions?

    Yah its safe to assume not interested but i wouldnt advice you to give up like that as you will become beta..you have approached her from an angle of being mr nice guy..my take on this will be to friendzone her if she don't initiate convo..but your friendship should be something more than friendship..you should put her in friendzone and flirt like crazy..trust me she will see you in different light
    Whether you think you can or you can't either way, you are right-To believe in the heroic makes heroes

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    Default Re: Girl keep Dodging my questions?

    Re-engage lightly using different angle see if you get a response
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Girl keep Dodging my questions?

    DO NOT re-initate ...... this is pretty straight forward .... Do Not contect her ..... if she contacts you move on with it and do your thing ...... if she doesnt contact you move on ..... there are 3.2 TRILLION women in the world of those 1.9 trillion are "HOT"

    by not contacting her you dont do something that you will regret later on

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    Default Re: Girl keep Dodging my questions?

    well that's not nice. but dont worry if you aren't getting the response you want. just move on.


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