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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    But how do I maintain this and not going into friendzone without much Kino? And ya I always feel that she has something that shes hiding from me and something is stopping her. I told her this before and she just keep quiet.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Oh man, there are so much more attraction "tools" in your arsenal than just relying on Kino.
    - A strong confident eye contact (without blinking) - I use this alot on women. When you feel the desire for her and transmit it through your eye contact, she will feel it for you too. Two things will happen. Either she will feel uncomfortable or you will feel an exhilarating feeling. It takes practice to get good at this, which requires some method acting tactics known as emotional recall. But it's powerful and effective.
    - Conversation escalation - Wit, humor, making her laugh. Fun is the ultimate currency you can offer her. When you mix fun with emotional connection and validating her through letting her feel that she is winning you over, you are offering her more value than you can possibly imagine. When you allow a woman to experience emotions in a conversation, it allows her to put her guard down and draws her in. There are many good conversation guides out there and I suggest you do your research.

    As for getting her guards down and getting personal with her and establishing strong rapport and trust. I use what is called "I'll go first" tactic. For example, in her case, I could ask her "What is the most scariest moment in your life?" then say "You know what? I'll go first." Proceed to tell you yours and what you learned out of it. Usually by doing this, it will prompt her to open up. When you show vulnerability, she will do the same.

    So if you are hellbent on making it work with this girl, you need to be patient mixing up comfort and attraction. Over time as you lower her defense and she becomes more comfortable around you, slowly add in the kino for compliance so she gets use to you touching her.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Hey updates,
    So I went out with this girl many times after that and we agree to get each other a christmas present with a budget. I bought a ukulele, a cream which she needs and a softtoy which she likes. I intend to sing a song with the ukulele (which im not good at it cos I jus picked it up few days ago) and I want to ask her to be my gf. Any advice on how to go about with it?
    We have more and more Kino but sadly we did not kiss yet. Shes kind of a bad texter and I always call her every night.


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