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    Default Getting a birthday present

    Hey mates,
    I would like to ask what should i get for a girl's birthday without spending so much but still have a great effect. She says she like surprises but i guess all girls like surprises and she jokingly asked for a iphone 5 lol. I would bring her for a dinner and not sure what to do after that. We have went out for about 3 times and im bad at escalating and Kino stuff. Im always thinking of the worst scenerio that will happen! Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Nothing? Take her for food or drinks or whatever. Don't get her anything unless it's a joke present.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    If you haven't had sex yet than I wouldn't buy her anything or even if I did have sex with her... Look around and see what types of fun activities there are in your area. Meetup is an awesome tool to find different types of free activities GL
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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    I agree with the above advice. I wouldn't get her anything unless its a joke. In the past I have had really good results with woman I had not slept with yet by getting them something they like that's REALLY cheap. This one girl had told me her favorite candy was peanut butter cups so I got her a peanut butter cup. Another girl REALLY liked lemonade and didn't drink alcohol. I had a BBQ at my house and I bought a single can of lemonade for her. Now remember...for either of these two cases it was NOT her birthday.

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    How about bringing her to a male Strip Club? That way you can have the joke and drinks all at the same time! She'll be surprised all right lol. Not many guys got the balls to do this.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Hey mates,
    I would like to ask what should i get for a girl's birthday without spending so much but still have a great effect. She says she like surprises but i guess all girls like surprises and she jokingly asked for a iphone 5 lol. I would bring her for a dinner and not sure what to do after that. We have went out for about 3 times and im bad at Escalating and Kino stuff. Im always thinking of the worst scenerio that will happen! Thanks in advance!
    honestly I disagree completely with all of the obove posters. it would be an @sshole move to not get her anything (wich would probably upset her a lot) and btw taking her to a stripclub is just asking for a disaster (either it will make her uncomfortable or she will be starring at other guys the whole time) let her girlfriends take her there.

    if you are dating,you have to get her something! it doesn't have to be expensive.

    I made a girl have one of the best birthdays of her life by simply taking her to lunch and giving her a 4$ can of royal Danish cookies. seriously dude its the thought that counts.

    get her a small trinket of some kind or her favorite chocolate bar or anything that she likes. plan out a short date, and tell her you got something for her but don't give her the present till the end.
    make her feel special and she will love you for it.

    of course this is if you plan on being in any kind of real relationship with her.
    if your just hooking up (witch I assume you're not) then give her birthday sex.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Meteora- what you said basically backs up my last post. It's hard to say what this guys status is....he obviously hasn't f-closed. If you get this girl anything it shouldn't be expensive and should show that you listen to her and know what she likes. This will make her feel special. I met one of my exes at a show. For her birthday I got her a cd. It was a cd of the group that we saw the night we met. It was the best bday present she ever got! Another ex of mine was really into vampires so I bought plastic vampire teeth and fake blood, put it on, and Farked her brains out. If you get her something it should be significant and not cost allot of money.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Hi thanks everyone for the advices. In the end i bought her to a nice place for dinner. i bought her a super small bouquet of flowers, a card with my drawings inside and a $5 earring as that day is her actual birthday itself. I can see that she likes the card the most. Sadly nothing happens but only some Kino Right now im having exams and she don't really reply to msges (our msges never last more than 4 or 5). All i can do is sometimes call her and chat. Any ideas how to make this last till my exam ends which is about 2 weeks later?

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Some problems guys. When I kind of touch her or put my hand on her shoulder or hand, she kind of move away or something. Not sure whats wrong but she still continue going out with me and other stuffs were fine.

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    Default Re: Getting a birthday present

    Think nothing of it.

    Kino is a form of compliance testing used to calibrate for further escalation. Some girls might have hangups for reasons unknown until you find out through comfort building and establishing a rapport (she could've been sexually traumatized in some form, a hypocondriac germ freak, immature, etc.)

    When I was in college, this one girl I was interested in didn't like to hold hands. And my best friend's girlfriend was like that too. Always shunned public display of affection. I often find that girl's like that are in the minority.

    I would work on developing comfort and rapport and try again. Get to really know her as a person rather than getting caught up on superficial conversation.

    If it is still to no avail, then she might have some deep-seated baggage and it's not your problem. Sometimes, the juice is not worth the squeeze. At this point, personally, it's a turn-off for me and I'd let her go. There will be other women more appreciative of your affections.


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