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    snowguy898 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    So a little background: I first hooked up with this girl two weekends ago. My roommate is seeing her roommate, and we all went out, got drunk, and the 4 of us ended up coming back to my place. She spent the night, etc...

    I took her out a few days later for dinner (I would find out later from her roommate she was "really nervous" for the date, after dinner she suggested drinks at her place, we ended up going to my place instead since her roommate was home and mine was not. She spent the night again. The next couple days we texted back and forth, she was always responding within ten minutes.

    So Friday night I was out with friends, got pretty drunk and texted her at 1am asking if she was out. No response. So the next day I texted in the afternoon just saying "he sorry about the 1am drunk text" Still no response.

    You think she's pissed about that? Should I call her? Or just casually text her as if nothing is wrong?

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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    Your story is not that clear about how you applied game..tell us more..did you build attraction?..did you escalate?..did you fuck close her when she was sleeping at your place?..get into details
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    snowguy898 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    To be honest it didn't take too much game really. She basically told me that first night we hooked up when were were all out for drinks that she wasn't feeling well but only came out because she wanted to hang out with me (we had met once before when my roommate invited me over to their place to watch football, I negged her a little but nothing much).
    Had great Kino that first night we were out, grabbed her by the hand and pulled her to a photo booth at the bar to Isolate her.
    Yes I fark closed her both times she spent the night.

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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    Dude your way overthinking it. First of all, you shouldn't have apologized to her for the "drunk" text. She didn't respond because she didn't have to. If she wasn't out why would she respond to that in the morning when she got it? What you should do is act like nothing happened because nothing did happen. You did nothing wrong my man, you texted her to see if she was out and obviously she wasn't. End of story.

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    snowguy898 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    So how should I play it now? Like you said, I apologized when maybe I shouldn't have. Should I wait for her to text? Or should I text her as if the last two never happened?

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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    If I was you I would give her a call.

    Do not spend too much time worrying about if you should have appologised or not. having manners is not something to be ashamed of, and you should not always be worrying about if having manners makes you seem weak. It is mature to say sorry if you think you have done something inconsiderate that may have annoyed someone. just don't dwell on it beyond the sincere appology.
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    Default Re: Don't know if I should text again, PLEASE HELP!

    I agree with direct on this no big deal. Leave it alone. If I where you I would plan something fun tell her your fun plan and ask if she wants to join you.

    But what is done is done. Worrying about it and brining it up will make you look needy as hell for attention.
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