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    Default Re: Online Number Closing.

    Online gaming is the worst for me. I suck at it badly, but reading this kind of sparked up the interest to try again. Thanks for posting!

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    Default Re: Online Number Closing.

    A lot of guys don't bother with online gaming. Wanna know why? It's simple.. They talk to 10 girls, flop every single one, and then say "fark this, online sites suck!". Well.. How did your first 10 approaches at bars and clubs go? Probably not that great unless you're a natural. That's the common denominator between the two, you need to be willing to blow it a bunch of times and learn from what you did wrong.. Which I did. For about a month.

    Like Dirty said, you won't get a simple "sure" as a reply as long as you did everything right and/or didn't bring up your number too fast. A couple other answers I've gotten: "haha, yeah I'll behave!", "I guess you'll find out after you give it to me ".. In my experience, they almost always text after. However, like I said before, the next message they send is most often their number.

    I won't bring up my number until I feel like I know for sure, based on the conversation, that I have her hooked.

    And please for god's sake; NEVER talk about HER phone number. NEVERRR.

    cd: I did meet with her.. Won't be seeing her a second time though lol. High maintenance and obnoxious is a bad combo for me. She was pretty cute though :P

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    Default Re: Online Number Closing.

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    A lot of guys don't bother with online gaming. Wanna know why? It's simple.. They talk to 10 girls, flop every single one, and then say "fark this, online sites suck!". Well.. How did your first 10 approaches at bars and clubs go? Probably not that great unless you're a natural. That's the common denominator between the two, you need to be willing to blow it a bunch of times and learn from what you did wrong.. Which I did. For about a month.

    Like Dirty said, you won't get a simple "sure" as a reply as long as you did everything right and/or didn't bring up your number too fast. A couple other answers I've gotten: "haha, yeah I'll behave!", "I guess you'll find out after you give it to me ".. In my experience, they almost always text after. However, like I said before, the next message they send is most often their number.

    I won't bring up my number until I feel like I know for sure, based on the conversation, that I have her hooked.

    And please for god's sake; NEVER talk about HER phone number. NEVERRR.

    cd: I did meet with her.. Won't be seeing her a second time though lol. High maintenance and obnoxious is a bad combo for me. She was pretty cute though :P
    I ran into the same situation of giving my number too early a few days ago. As far as meeting her, did she end up texting you? Or did you set up the meet online?

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    Default Re: Online Number Closing.

    I texted her the next day I think, if I remember correctly. Sometimes I'll text the same day.. I don't think it really matters. If she offered up her number than she is interested.

    I don't think I've ever set up a meet online, I do it through text.. Standard text game, attraction and comfort building, rapport etc etc. Setting up the meet shouldn't be all that difficult if you aren't horrible at texting. Getting the number itself and moving to text is more challenging.. Again, after she's given you her number she's pretty much already decided she wants to meet you.. I mean, she's on a dating site remember.

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    Default Re: Online Number Closing.

    No offense but at first I thought it was little cheesy to send this but I decided to take a chance,

    I have to reply how perfect this worked, modified a bit...

    me: sorry for delay - in process of switching jobs.... plus just moved and like you , not sure of the site either.

    Will you behave if I give you my number? Texting is much easier... I can't always reply right away, but I do my best Except, I am guessing you are old fashioned and prefer the guy to call...

    We can rewatch (classic movie referenced in her profile that i used in first email) together on our 5th date =)

    Her: Hello, I promise I will behave if you give me your number. Matter of fact I'll give you mine because I really don't like being on here. Too many perverts lol. And yes I do prefer a guy to call though if you were able to and not to busy yes on our 5th or 6th date we can watch (classic movie). I'll here from you soon. xxx xxx-xxxx my name is xxxxx btw
    A couple of notes:
    I had mixed case - which made it obvious that I cut and paste pieces together - didn't matter
    In both cases , we are offering our number and they are giving their's in return - I love that


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