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    rockd is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Was going great, then I hurt her feelings

    I asked out a girl after seeing her for just a couple weeks, and before sex. She said yes but because of past new relationship issues I felt like it wasn't really a set in stone relationship ( I was very wrong) and 3 days ago we went on a date. I wanted to just ask, are you sure you weren't pressured at all (because it was an intimate in bed moment when I asked). But I felt awkward doing it because of her possible response to the question so I went around it and ended saying things that hurt her. Through text later that night, she contacted me and she felt that she was a mistake to me and that I asked her out and regretted it so she wanted to step the relationship down. I told her that wasn't the issue at all and she misunderstand what I meant (which is very true)but at the end of the night she told me I eased her mind and we were in a relationship. But I knew the issue was bigger, so the next day I sent a text really apologizing for the way I made her feel. I sent another the next day saying how are you doing, are we still on for tonight. Now today there is still no response.

    I was thinking of texting her and saying that we should really talk this through and would both feel a lot better after doing it. Like, tomorrow lets get some coffee and talk to each other because I feel we would both feel a lot better after. I think her biggest problem is deciding whether or not this can work out and be a good relationship.

    I usually would think its over with a girl, but we really did connect on every damn level and had a great time together. Much more so than the other 10 girls I've seen this year. She told me she was floored I asked her out so soon and that I thought that highly of her. Now I just don't know.

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Was going great, then I hurt her feelings

    Hey rockd stop putting emphasis on something that may have been delt with by both of you.if you are in a relation may focus on that.keep amping attraction.PEACE


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