Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 8 of 8
Like Tree4Likes
  • 1 Post By TomInVegas
  • 2 Post By cdharders
  • 1 Post By sedux

Thread: How to respond to "hello :)"

  1. #1
    LikeButter is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 150, Level: 2
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 5.6%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    23
    Points
    150
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default How to respond to "hello :)"

    So I got this girls number...sweet girl but can definitely be sassy if you let her. I sent my initial text about our conversation last night and I got a "Hello " Not sure how I should approach this. I can usually come up with something to flow the conversation though

  2. #2
    TomInVegas's Avatar
    TomInVegas is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 991, Level: 17
    Level completed: 91%, Points required for next Level: 9
    Overall activity: 13.0%
    Achievements:
    Social500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    Las Vegas
    Posts
    129
    Points
    991
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    49

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    Quote Originally Posted by LikeButter View Post
    So I got this girls number...sweet girl but can definitely be sassy if you let her. I sent my initial text about our conversation last night and I got a "Hello " Not sure how I should approach this. I can usually come up with something to flow the conversation though
    Keep it simple.

    "Hey (Nickname) what are you up to ? "

    and then go from there.
    Hit me up if you're thinking about coming to Vegas. It's the Best City for Game in the World.

  3. #3
    cdharders's Avatar
    cdharders is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,074, Level: 40
    Level completed: 62%, Points required for next Level: 76
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    Austin
    Posts
    569
    Points
    4,074
    Level
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    192

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    TominVegas is great. I'd say "Heyy how are you ?" She's obviously in a good mood, so that's good but get her to say that and solidify. I throw in the extra "y" on purpose. It's a little more fun and playful, which you can do since she clearly likes you. That's a lot of investment on her part. Don't get clever with lots of teases. She already likes you. Just get the conversation going then get a meet up established.
    The Official Tinder Playbook--> http://conquerdatingapps.co m <--Stop swiping, start hooking up

  4. #4
    drgnsfire12 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 3,671, Level: 38
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 129
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    New York, New York
    Posts
    588
    Points
    3,671
    Level
    38
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 37 Times in 36 Posts
    Rep Power
    181

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    Hey Tom, I thought I read that you should never text "what are you up to" or "what's up / happening" ?????

  5. #5
    sedux is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 63, Level: 1
    Level completed: 26%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 22.4%
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    11
    Points
    63
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    Hey Tom, I thought I read that you should never text "what are you up to" or "what's up / happening" ?????
    There is no rule set in stone, here. While it is not the way I would start off a convo saying "What's up...", because it just not a compelling starter, it is perfectly okay replying to her initial "Hello" with that. Also, if the convo is going smooth and flowing well, you can go with your gut feeling without being too much afraid of messing up by small talk items like this.

    Hope that helps!
    sedux

  6. #6
    sedux is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 63, Level: 1
    Level completed: 26%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 22.4%
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    11
    Points
    63
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    Quote Originally Posted by LikeButter View Post
    So I got this girls number...sweet girl but can definitely be sassy if you let her. I sent my initial text about our conversation last night and I got a "Hello " Not sure how I should approach this. I can usually come up with something to flow the conversation though
    What has been mentioned by others before is good. She's giving you some nice engergy, now don't get overly motivated, this is important! That means, if she gives you a smilie, it's a plus, but don't text her back with a smilie, as well! Cool it off just a tad with a simple "Hey there, what's up?" will do. You can add a simple open question but don't reply with an emoticon at this time!

    Good luck!
    sedux

  7. #7
    Dwill is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 59, Level: 1
    Level completed: 18%, Points required for next Level: 41
    Overall activity: 12.2%
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    6
    Points
    59
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    After he sends his initial text all she says is "hello " isn't that response kinda dry? I dunno but I won't take it yet that she's overly interested.

  8. #8
    sedux is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 63, Level: 1
    Level completed: 26%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 22.4%
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    11
    Points
    63
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: How to respond to "hello :)"

    Quote Originally Posted by Dwill View Post
    After he sends his initial text all she says is "hello " isn't that response kinda dry? I dunno but I won't take it yet that she's overly interested.
    Not necessarily. It's the start of a convo, so don't over analyze it. To my experience, many girls online have not really much going for them but you will only find out if you carry on the convo process. Classy women who know how to express themselves in text are seldom but even they might start off texting like this. Chicks are not used to go for it and chase the other gender socially, so don't expect funny and intelligent lines in the beginning. Just give it a go in an upbeat manner an see what happens after the ice has been broken and you established some rapport.
    You'll soon know if she always responds in a shallow way or if she can open up and has something you wanna to go for.

    Best,
    sedux


Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 09-22-2013, 06:07 PM
  2. How should I respond if a woman asks "what do you do?"
    By Mystik in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 04-10-2013, 01:00 PM
  3. Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 02-05-2013, 03:11 PM
  4. How to respond to "I have a boyfriend".
    By Big Shawn in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 13
    Last Thread: 01-27-2013, 08:59 AM
  5. How to respond to "How's your week been?"
    By MonkeyBoy in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 11-26-2012, 04:28 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com