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    Default Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    Hey guys, I'm posting this because I've been failing badly at moving my game with asian women from number closes to first dates. I've always wanted to experience an asian girl and I'm doing something wrong because it hasn't been going well compared to my success rate of typical white girls (not racist )

    So basically, what do you guys know about asian women for gaming and is there something I have to apply differently through text? I number closed 4 asian girls recently and they all drop in the text game.. when usually im mediocre at it.

    Thoughts/suggestions are all welcome. I know I didn't give details from my field experience... but I figure this may suffice. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    It depends. Are they Asian women who are FOB (Fresh off the boat/foreign immigrants or visitors) or are they Asian-American (2nd generation born in the states). The game is completely different between the two.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    They're asians that have come over from China and have been here for three or four years. Any tips?

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    Don't use text messages when there may be a language barrier.

    Face to face works better with these girls. Work on your body language that's how most of our communication is done in person and it becomes even more crucial when there is a language barrier.

    Or you could always learn to speak Cantonese or Mandarin which are the two most popular dialects in China. I would choose to learn Mandarin if those were the girls I wanted to game.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    There is a guide written somewhere in this forum on gaming foreign asian girls. To make things even more complicate, there are distinct differences between gaming Japanese, Korean, and Chinese girls.

    Now I've heard two extremes. Some say they are tougher to game because of the language barrier and cultural difference. On the other end, I've had many of my normal non-PUA friends hook up very easy. These are guys with no game with women. And I was told that foreign girls are easy because they are looking for American guys. So it's been a running joke that these guys can't get American chicks, so they go after foreign girls who are more easier. Pick-up on easy mode lol.

    There was also a former thread I addressed for someone who was gaming a korean girl.

    When dealing with FOB asian chicks, the game is completely different. For example, you can't use things like negging. They will take it for face value and be hurt. It just doesn't translate over. Same with humor. Push-pulls are tough as well. If you are too 'fast' like how most PUAs operate, then that can bite you in the ass as well as they can see it as being too aggressive. There's a whole bunch of don'ts.

    There could be dozens of factors why you are failing. Hard to say without examples of specific situations. But chances are you will have to forget just about everything you've learned about PUA. The basic elements are still there such as confidence. But the conversation whether in person or text is like going back to AFC Mr. Nice Guy mode.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    Thanks guys for all the comments. I will reduce the text game and make the conversations more simple and easy to understand. I'm interested mostly in Chinese girls, but there are sexy women from every ethnicity. Dropping the PUA and going more Mr. Nice Guy for these girls... should be interesting. Should be interesting :P.

    I'll take a look at the other "Gaming Foreign Girls" threads when I get a chance.

    Happy Sargin'.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    As a footnote, I would stay away from "Asian Nightclubs." They got a mix of FOB and Asian-Americans. Those place suck for PUAs.

    - Alot of the Asian girls have sucky conversation skills. You approach them and you are met with "Do I know you?" and really air-headed Q&A. Don't expect an intelligent profound conversation. It's like talking to senile seniors in old folks home.
    - You are dealing with constant cockblocks from a target's girlfriends (because they are being A-hoes) or guys. It's god aweful. Why do they do this? See above.
    - If a girl rejects you, she burns you and shows little class.
    - Guys have a macho attitude and are very pretentious and contentious (especially Koreans). Just bump into them and they want to start a fight. If you are non-Asian making a move on an Asian chick, they will cockblock you or look at you with spite for encroaching on their women. They hate that.

    Best pickup at school or any other venue. Even as an Asian, I steer clear from these places as if they were radioactive biohazard. Normal nightclub ftw.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    Thanks Immortal. Here in Newfoundland we don't have any asian nightclubs. I don't go downtown too often.. Most of my sarging is on campus or doing my daily errands.

    Again, I'll take your notes into consideration.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    I was the one who wrote the guide thing, here it is:

    Bit of a specific situation (Korean girl)

    Actually, reading it again, I'm impressed how much my game moved forward in 6 months haha. I might correct it in the future, some of the things I wrote could be improved (and the grmmar mistakes hurt my eyes), but as a whole I think it's relevant
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Poor success with asian women- TEXT

    Ah there you are Mika. I could never get your name right lol.

    I never heard back from that one dude who was working on that K girl.


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