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    Thumbs down Dck goes soft during sex

    So I have had this for a while now. Everytime we make out, she makes blowjob or I got to feel her I go hard. But after I enter her and start actually farking my d goes soft after few minutes.

    At first it didnt really bothered me cause I always was afraid that I would come too early. But now last week she mentioned about it and thinks it´s her fault (well naturally).

    What we usually do is she puts her legs on top of me and we do it missionary style since normal missionary hasnt work for me since first days (I just cant figure how you could get it in even though I have kind of big d). I also have small bed :/

    So now all I can think is getting my d1ck hard. I dont have any performance pressures and I´m not shamed of my body or anything like that (actually I´m very fit). I DO HAVE kidney problems but its minor and shouldnt affect in any way. I´m usually very tired cause I live active life but it cant be the case cause it happens so often. I eat "student food" with lot of pasta and some vegetables, milk and stuff like that. I dont smoke but I drink in average once a week.

    I do gym 4 times a week normally, now since I have been feeling sick I do only 2 times a week.

    She´s HB7. You could say she´s large. Like Snooki size lol. She has big boobs and in every way she´s lot bigger than I am. Shes very pretty though. Her weight is kind of issue for me, I have been asking her to come to gym or jogging with me but as you know these things cannot be discussed :/ She´s also very big from v so that it´s tight to enter but very little feeling inside. I also use condom for now.

    Can it be really her? I do like her and she turns me on but this happens only when we are farking.
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    honestly, the problem might be the condom, if its a tight fit it can cut off some of the blood flow to the shaft. have you had the same problem while having sex without a condom? (I truly believe that condoms Take Away some of the pleasure from sex.) I'm not saying that you should have unsafe sex with strangers, but with a steady girlfriend its more ok (just have her get tested for stds before you do it)

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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    I bought bigger condoms since ones I had earlier didnt really fit. Yeah I hope it helps, she already has the pills but can start taking them by next period which is within three weeks. I really hope that fixes problem...until then I just try to make with what I have. But during bj´s condom doesnt seem to be problem :/ Hope thats it.

    And btw she said she lost virginity to me. She has been with other guys, sort of dated one, doing fingering and bjs and stuff like that (I dont even want to hear tbh). But she seemed really honest about it and actually was ashamed how inexperienced she was and became mad when I doubted her. She said she got tested just last may and hasnt had sex with anyone else ofc. Im getting tested though, just waiting for results
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    If a girl's vagina isn't tight, I'll eventually lose my hard on. Also possible if you start thinking too much, so the blood leaves your dick and goes to your head. Be well hydrated. Have you tried any ED pills?
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    I havent tried any pills yet. I also never have had unprotected sex since this is my first LTR and i believe in protection I dont know if she could control her muscles in a way so that her pussy would be tighter...
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    Well, quality condoms don't block the blood flow that's for sure.

    But the vagina can certainly cut the blood flow to the penis. There are some cases that vagina gets so tight, the penis gets stuck inside and it needs medical attention. (embarrassing right?)

    It might have been the both of you. As much as you feel confident with yourself, you might not feel confident about the whole action/situation, therefore you can get nervous. In addition, she might be nervous as well. My advice is to take things a bit slow, get used to the environment, get used to each other and relaaaaaxx.
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    Thanks for tips again wolf! Now that I think of it she has very tight vagina but inner side is just senseless. I also have very wide d1ck. So might be combination of these things! We are having sex tonight for sure so Im digging in with this thing
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    Another thing to take into consideration is whether you are circumcised or not. Circumcision is a double whammy in terms of decreasing the pleasure of sex. Your penis may be going soft during sex because you aren't getting everything that you should out of it.

    The first negative is loosing all of that skin. The circumcised foreskin is some of the most sensitive tissue on the entire penis. Cutting it off removes all of that sensitive tissue, and it takes away from the feeling of enjoying sex.

    The second negative is that circumcision leaves your head exposed. The job of the foreskin is to keep the head covered and protected from the dry air, rough boxers, or anything else. A normal, uncircumcised penis should appear to be tight and glossy, not dry and slightly wrinkly.

    The best fix I can recommend is to get some good moisturizing lotion (Anything designed for dry skin treatment would be good), and start using it on the head and shaft of your penis. Anti-wrinkle treatment may also be good. Within a week you should notice a significant increase in sensitivity. Try that and see if that fixes your problem.

    On another thought, masturbation can also make sex harder because it desensitizes the penis as well. If you are masturbating often, cold turkey it and you should notice an increase in desire.
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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    Definitely make sure you have the right size condom if you are blessed below.

    I never lost an erection until i had to start using condoms a while back, i know i'm bigger than most in terms of girth but still, every time i tried to put on a large or XL condom i'd just lose my erection.

    Now using King size and it helps somewhat although still lose it occasionally if my penis ever gets fully hard which means even then they won't fit.

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    Default Re: Dck goes soft during sex

    It's a common thing among guys, just keep trying sex differently until you find what works for you. Just ask your girlfriend to be patient with you and reassure her it's absolutely nothing to do with her. Like others said, it's very likely it could be the condom thing. It's also an issue among guys that if they masturbate a lot they will have become more comfortable with their hand. Less masturbating and more intercourse will eventually tip the scales in the other direction and you'll be having more enjoyable sex.


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