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    Default BJ advice for her

    I´m starting my LTR so I have lot to ask, bare with me guys any help is greatly appreciated

    Yesterday after sex she asked if I could say what she could do differently when giving blowjobs. Well for me its straight forward and I said that shes doing it very well as it is. I also said that I dont know how to xxx lol. Well she said that guy who she almost dated adviced her in some way (which gave me oh so many images in my head ). This happened two years ago for her. And she said that surely I have experienced different blowjobs so I could advice her.

    Domination has been my sticking point and here it seems to go again. Other guy was very aggressive as I understand and she probably just put his xxx on her mouth and said that lick my xxx and stuff like that. Well it tells something about this guy that she didnt want to have sex with him and decided to wait for someone else (me lol ). She has asked me to teach her way I want her to be.

    How could I advice her with bjs? Seriously she is doing ok job with it...only thing I can come up with is to look me while doing it and I´m going to say that next time. I have also said about sex that you can´t be too naughty and that she should try anything thats on her mind.

    WHAT DO YOU THINK, is it ok to advice her when she is not horny during daytime (like in chat) or should I wait for sex? I have tried to advice her during sex but it usually just interrupts everything an when I say "put condom" or "use saliva" she has said "no!" and it just kills the mood. She doesnt have very high immersion usually. She doesnt see me as a authority and I have to fight couple minutes to get my will trough. (like if I say to her "we go this way" she says "no" and tries to go other way and eventually follows me but is mad and says something like "i´m not a dog"). I would like to dominate her to give her full satisfaction. I have also said that man should decice when to stop a kiss but she still stops it very often and it irrates me since she doesnt follow my lead. I havent had any problems with other woman, some have said that it has been best kiss of their life.

    Also how could I get doggy style? I think she afraids that I want xxx since we rarely spoon and when I try to turn her around she refuses no matter how much I try (and im pretty strong too )
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    Default Re: advice for her

    Tell her what you wan't. That's basically all the advice I can give you. For the doggy style thing I would just turn her over during sex and bang her doggy style. That's what I do. That's all I can really say because I have never had a similar problem. I always tell a girl what I want and while having sex if I want to move to another position I just do it. I don't ask. I have never had a girl say no to a certain position. That's just confusing to me.

    What I do is tell her I'm going to do something while having sex, then if she says no I don't. BUT that's only for certain things like blowing in her face. Changing positions should just be done without asking cause its not a big deal. Example: "Im going to xxx all over your face" If she says no then don't. If she doesn't say anything then she gave you the green light to do it.

    Sometimes a woman will say "do whatever you want". I've had this happen on numerous occasions. If your gf says this then take her up on the offer and do whatever you want. I'm still confused about the domination thing. I suspect you might be asking for permission to do certain things you shouldn't have to ask for like changing positions, or instead of dominating and just doing it you might be conveying uncertainty in your movements that she is picking up on. To be honest I'm always dominating because that's the mans role in bed. Women love it because they want to be submissive. That's why most women like their hair to be pulled or slapped on the butt a couple times while having sex.

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    Default Re: advice for her

    Great points there!

    You can blame how I was raised, I was always more mommas boy in a way and my brother is more practical, more traditional man. I do was raised so that I do have mans sexual drive in me and it guides me well Thats why I needed PU in first place, I was too wussy back then to approach anyone.

    I hate it, lack of power its really depressing. I usually have just turned woman and picked her up, stuff like that but it shocked me at first when I tried to turn her she violently forced not to and she is bigger than me so I cant turn her if she refuses (although im muscular). She has also very strong will and plans stuff inside her head that she doesnt tell me and just assumes we are doing so.

    I have done everything I can to work this issue, I even searched for engineer instead of finance things partially to spend more time with guys and to learn how to be more dominant. I have noticed at times that I´m right and other are wrong but still I´m not one they believe so maybe something in my behavior is hesitant. (that would explain why I always have solid phone and text game).

    I have read "How to be alpha man" and "48 laws of power". Maybe next time I just try to turn her just by sudden. Aaaah it kills me that I still has this sticking point, maybe I have to go and rape some woman Not really. I probably just test my boundaries with her
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    Wow thanks DirectIsBest! After your post I decided to man up. I became sick and she was very angry about it (since I went out yesterday). We went to lay down and I decided that since its up to me to decide I want it, now So I just aroused her and guided her with my hands and eventually she gave me best bj I have had in a while. I also handled her while she was doing it and she seemed to love it. She even called me "nice". I let her rationalize it when she said that she wanted to make me feel good since I was sick. In my mind I thinked how well I was able to make her do as I like.

    My new guide rule: don´t say anything, just do it. Thanks again!
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    Default Re: BJ advice for her

    I'm glad I could help you out my man! That's the key really. Your the man and your in charge. She will like you even more with that attitude. You both benefit. Cheers!


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