I´m starting my LTR so I have lot to ask, bare with me guys any help is greatly appreciated
Yesterday after sex she asked if I could say what she could do differently when giving blowjobs. Well for me its straight forward and I said that shes doing it very well as it is. I also said that I dont know how to xxx lol. Well she said that guy who she almost dated adviced her in some way (which gave me oh so many images in my head ). This happened two years ago for her. And she said that surely I have experienced different blowjobs so I could advice her.
Domination has been my sticking point and here it seems to go again. Other guy was very aggressive as I understand and she probably just put his xxx on her mouth and said that lick my xxx and stuff like that. Well it tells something about this guy that she didnt want to have sex with him and decided to wait for someone else (me lol ). She has asked me to teach her way I want her to be.
How could I advice her with bjs? Seriously she is doing ok job with it...only thing I can come up with is to look me while doing it and I´m going to say that next time. I have also said about sex that you can´t be too naughty and that she should try anything thats on her mind.
WHAT DO YOU THINK, is it ok to advice her when she is not horny during daytime (like in chat) or should I wait for sex? I have tried to advice her during sex but it usually just interrupts everything an when I say "put condom" or "use saliva" she has said "no!" and it just kills the mood. She doesnt have very high immersion usually. She doesnt see me as a authority and I have to fight couple minutes to get my will trough. (like if I say to her "we go this way" she says "no" and tries to go other way and eventually follows me but is mad and says something like "i´m not a dog"). I would like to dominate her to give her full satisfaction. I have also said that man should decice when to stop a kiss but she still stops it very often and it irrates me since she doesnt follow my lead. I havent had any problems with other woman, some have said that it has been best kiss of their life.
Also how could I get doggy style? I think she afraids that I want xxx since we rarely spoon and when I try to turn her around she refuses no matter how much I try (and im pretty strong too )