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    Default Need serious guidance with this

    me and a girl started working together in June. she asked for my number. we would text nearly everyday up until November. she has had a boyfriend the entire time. she will not hangout with guys because she said she is afraid that if she does he will hangout with girls. up until November first she was doing 70% to 80% of the text initiating (saying hi). now as of December 4th she hasnt initiated however if i text her she'll talk. i called her out and asked why she doesnt talk anymore she said "im just busy with my boyfriend". shes 18 and he's 17 and im 22. the boyfriend is a senior in highschool and shes graduated. I really want this chick. also as of Novemeber first she hasnt really been active on Facebook she use to always be really active on facebook and twitter but now is just mildy active on Instagram. i dont think the boyfriend is telling her to stop anything cause he's known about me since the day me and her started talking. any insight would be helpful. id atleast like to stay active in her life for when they do breakup.

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    Default Re: Need serious guidance with this

    Here is my super accurate detective work.

    She saying she is busy with her boyfriend to me sounds like a shit test. "Oh remember that boyfriend I have?". Maybe it came out differently though. Are you sure you arent friendzoned? Maybe she was waiting for you to iniate? I have noticed myself many times getting attention from some girl and everything would just fall flat because of my inactivity (she may think I wasn´t intrested or I was too hesitant). Not to force you to be needy though.

    If you had real attraction with her then I think you were doing good. Fact that she thinked you basically as potential date proves that everything might not be perfect between him and her. She might have worked things out with him and is loosing affection to you. Waiting her to break up sounds like much work. If you really want her you could break their relationship (not adviced though lol!) or neither ignore her so that she has good memories of you but isnt too distant or keep your friendhip is magic thing and wait right time to come
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    Default Re: Need serious guidance with this

    yeah its weird because everytime i text her she'll talk. like theres no sign of "ughhh he texted me". maybe ill initiate 3 days in a row and see what happens?

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    Default Re: Need serious guidance with this

    Quote Originally Posted by iamchance View Post
    yeah its weird because everytime i text her she'll talk. like theres no sign of "ughhh he texted me". maybe ill initiate 3 days in a row and see what happens?
    I dunno if its matter of whos iniating conversation. You should figure out which direction you are going with her, think by yourself or wait for other experts.

    Do you keep man to woman style in your chats or is it more friend to friend? Even though you would be neutral with her there is still change for you since it seems that women usually fall for someone who is in their circle. (In other words is preselected by females, males)
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    Default Re: Need serious guidance with this

    yeah i try to keep it on the fence of friend...but friend that is interested. like for instance last week when we where talking she was telling me how she was in her bed with her favorite stuffed animals and i told her that she needs to move over cause im going to come swan dive in. she actually played along i told her that i dont like people that snore and she said that she doesnt snore but is a blanket hog. so i try to keep it on the fine line of flirty but trying to show my intentions of being more then a friend. ill still ask how her day was....how she is feeling (she was realllllllly sick recently) but every now and then ill throw something flirty.


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