So I met this girl in July, and got her number. This girl is drop dead gorgeous, super smart and very independent, which is my main source of attraction to her. Anyways, tried setting up some dates soon after meeting but it seemed she was always busy and came across a bit flaky so I gave up and used my energy on other women. I did keep her on my radar though, and ran into her randomly a few times over the summer, sent her a text every month or so to see what was up. Early in November I touched base with her and it seemed her interest had risen somewhat, so I got her to meet me for lunch and things went well (she has an hour lunch break and stayed for an hour and a half).

We then set up a date a week later on a Saturday night where I took her for dinner and then an NHL game. We met up with some friends of hers that night, and hopped around to a few bars, meeting some of my friends in the process. Everything went great, she came back to my house and we slept together. The next morning, we woke up, I made her breakfast, and then we went back to bed together and just cuddled and talked for 4 hours, with her not leaving my house until 2pm. She was very affectionate and we were having great conversation with lots of laughs. Anyways, to summarize the date could not have gone better, and was feeling really good about things after she left.

Since then however, while we have been exchanging more texts than before, it seems as though I didn't make any progress with her, which obviously is the exact opposite of the behaviour I usually find in women after I sleep with them (nevermind them staying at my house until 2pm the next day). In the three weeks since she has only met me for a mid day coffee. I've asked her to hang out a few times, but she always has something else going on. Finally, she was to meet up with me on Saturday night and ended up flaking out and going to hang out with her friends. I texted her back that I wasn't going to bother asking her to hang out anymore, which seemed to get her flustered a bit with her texting me back "not to over think this too much", and "she hasn't been single that long", etc...

Anyways, I haven't texted her since (neither has she) and decided I was going to move on. That being said, the whole situation was so strange to me the way it all played out that I am curious as to what might have been going on here. Her signals and interest level were so inconsistent from one day to the next. Any insight to what is going on here? I thought I had women mostly figured out but this has left me at a loss... I know she is interested...