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    Cool Is bad mouthing an ex during a relationship a good idea?

    I'm seeing a girl currently. She came out of a pretty bad relationship which lasted 2 years, about 2 months ago. She sometimes brings him up and I'm unsure whether or not to bad mouth him or stick to general BF destroyer techniques.

    Don't get me wrong, the man was scum. I won't dither on what he done/said to her but it was quite bad. So sticking up for him may prove to be crass and insensitive.

    Views on this would be interesting and appreciated.

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    Default Re: Is bad mouthing an ex during a relationship a good idea?

    Don't say anything. Just listen to her. Let her talk about it if she want's too. Just say uhhhuh, yea, yea etc. so she knows your listening. That's it. I WOULD NOT bad mouth him in any way. That will only push her towards him.

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    Default Re: Is bad mouthing an ex during a relationship a good idea?

    Yup, girls often just want to be listened to.

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    Default Re: Is bad mouthing an ex during a relationship a good idea?

    Well by dating a fresh heartbreak you already took yourself on a bumpy ride.
    Either ways at first just listen like the others said, never badmouth a guy you don't even know or care about, you don't need to be adding Tension. But definitely pretend that you're listening.
    2nd is the phase where you start changing subject whenever she brings him up. You must let her be sad about it for a while but that's it after some time this has to go; you gotta distract that broad.

    Good luck. You will need it.


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