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    night_rider is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl is trying to change frame on me

    So i've been out here for awhile since my last post working on my day game and just improving my social skills in general. A few days ago I made a plan to go hiking around my college (happens to be right next to the beach and a lot of trails) but my regular guy friends have class. Just so happens that one of them mentioned starting a bigger group for us to hang with.

    Long story short, a few guys pointed me in the direction of craigslist 'strictly platonic' section. (Mind you that I am to this minute, very wary of any of the craigslist stuff. Always seemed sketchy to me.) Well I ended up posting there for a hiking partner. Pretty good results, got 5 real replies and one of em happens to go to my same college.

    So this is my problem, after screening her, making light conversation and flirting a little just for the hell of it to see if "strictly platonic" was just words on a page. I know this is craigslist so my hopes weren't up. I felt like she was giving me the run around so I told her that I'm not looking for an email buddy and if she was up for an adventure to let me know. She sent me a message to try and change the frame on me. Here it is:

    Today at 3:29 PM

    It depends on the type of adventure and if I like/trust you enough.so maybe yeah!



    How would you guys respond to this to get her attracted and change the frame back?

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    night_rider is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl is trying to change frame on me

    Any help on a response to this would be appreciated

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    ThtNikkaGP is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl is trying to change frame on me

    you can say something along the lines of, "lets meet up and have some coffee, food, (anything really) We can talk and get to know one another then I'll decide if your a good candidate for a hiking partner ( turn it around on her, now you control the frame again". anything along those lines might work, good luck.


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