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    Default Her Guy Friends

    So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. Things are great, we get along really well. One dilemma is that she has several guy friends. I knew about this going in as I've known her for about two years.

    I've met one group of them who don't seem to be any threat at all. They are just a group of guys she went to high school with. The other group she met through a guy she used to date.

    Also, her neighbor is a co-worker of mine. Me and him haven't talked about her at all and we've only seen eachother a couple times since I've been dating this girl. As we generally work independently.

    The problem is that she frequently goes over to his parent's house to eat dinner, watch Vampire Diaries, etc. I don't see him as being a threat and I know she is not attracted to him. But the problem is that he has feelings for her and has put that out there in that past.

    I just want to know how do you guys deal with girls who have guy friends? She is a tomboy, sporty type so I know that she generally gets along well with guys more so than girls. I just have never had this issue before, and its started to kinda bother me as of late.

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    Default Re: Her Guy Friends

    There's nothing you can do about it. It sounds like he's in the friend zone with her and you shouldn't worry about it. Getting jealous and telling her not to hang out with him will backfire on you REAL fast. The best way to get your girl to cheat on you is to get jealous about other guys she's friends with. This will only push her away and lose feelings for you ESPECIALLY if there is nothing going on.

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    Default Re: Her Guy Friends

    I try to have Mindset that I have no threats. Even though I may get jealous from inside I never show it. I just encourage her to have great time with her lady and male friends. Also if she admires someone I also compliment him for it. That shows I don´t see him as a threat and she wont either! As long as you don´t dlv yourself everything should be alright. And if things aren´t best in your relationship she may even think of cheating but wrong way is to protect her. Right way is to show how great guy you are and why she doesn´t need anyone else.
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    Default Re: Her Guy Friends

    No point in worrying. Specifically here, sounds like she's not interested in him. In general,you are never competing over a woman. Ever. It is never a one guy wins= the other guy loses situation:
    1) Girls date and sleep with multiple guys in the same time span
    2) Eventually, the relationship will end, and then she is available

    The only thing you can do to hurt yourself is bring up the boyfriend.
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    Default Re: Her Guy Friends

    I dont see why you should bottle up something that makes you feel uncomfortable in dyn.however if you find yourself jealous then you might have a reason to.personally i dont see myself leaving my female connects unless.,so i can relate to how it may ruin your relation.eithers be social.talk to other girls innocently.


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