I have been talking to this girl for a couple weeks now and after getting her number met up with her two times so far. Both times have gone really well, and she has even said I am really attractive/her type both looks and personality wise. She has also said that she is afraid to be more than friends with me because she thinks that I may be a player and that she thinks I dont take dating/relationships serious enough for her. She is the "I only hook up with guys I am in a relationship with types."
Now for me, as an AFC, I kind of took it as a compliment considering that I have always been the exact opposite of a player, I guess some of the stuff I have been reading and learning has actually been working in some ways lol. So how do you go about convincing an HB that you are not a player if she thinks you are, or how do you really respond when they call you one? I would think for some girls it would be a dhv in some ways, but for a girl like this, its definitely more of a dlv. I would like to keep seeing this girl, but I still dont know if I want a relationship out of it.